I also believe (as do many across the political spectrum) that getting what I may want politically is not worth selling my soul to anyone (and that's what I think it is), let alone a person of such deeply poor moral character and obvious mental instability. I/we also strongly disagree with this simplistic, heavy, ham-handed approach, refusal to collaborate/innovate, and obvious indications of European-style autocratic authoritarianism. That's just my personal opinion.
See, that's why a serious discussion can't be had, because of your faulty premises.
Like many or most leftwingers as well as some Republicans, you don't understand there is a difference between Trump's straightforward often bombastic presentation vs the subtle way he achieves his goals. Trump has been the world's top negotiator for half a century now. He set things up with his rhetoric, gets people to move in a certain way, then he accomplishes his goals, not through heavy-handedness, but through thoughtful action. There is a method to every statement Trump makes, though not all may see it. That's why he's always four or five steps ahead of everyone else, including his own advisers. The examples are legion:
Leftwing media: "Why is Trump wasting his time campaigning in deep blue states like New York"
How it turned out: Trump's big city appearances magnified his national exposure. This is how he hit so many urban black men.
Leftwing media: Trump has a poor ground game. Harris' team is strong and knocks on thousands of doors.
How it turned out. Trump was using current communication technology while Democrats were using smoke signals. Trump was where the action was: the Joe Rogan Experience, podcasts, NFL and College Football advertising.
Leftwing media: Trump's insults of hispanic illegals will sour the hispanic votes
How it turned out. Legal hispanics AGREE with Trump about the need to keep illegals out.
Leftwing media Harris will win because she has a huge donation advantage.
How it turned out: LIke all leftwingers, Harris squandered her vast resources, and ended up in debt.
Leftwing media: Trump will lose because he has alienated women by going on "guy" shows where they demean women.
How it turned out. Trump went after the untapped male vote and built up an insurmountable advantage.
Leftwing media: Democrats are always younger and hipper than the old white man Trump.
How it turned out: Trump completely outcooled Harris by trolling her through the McDonald's and trashman riffs, running great NFL ads, and going on popular podcasts. When popular black NFL athletes are doing a Trump dance, you KNOW the man has cornered the market on cool
Leftwing media in 2016: Trump's tariffs will increase prices and alienate our trade partners.
How it turned out: China was forced to come to the negotiation table and change their ways. Inflation and prices were extremely low and stable in Trump's first term.
Leftwing media: Trump is a career felon who buried himself with his insolence in the courtroom.
How it turned out: Trump was easily re-elected because voters saw through the sham trials, AND all charges have or will be rescinded. Net result. Trump has ZERO felonies.
Summary: Trump has thrashed all his leftwing opponents and operatives whose sole mission was to destroy him. Trump massively won in every way. Now his legacy of greatness is cemented, a fact that is not disputed by many leftwingers.