And again, what does this actually have to do with homosexuals getting married?
None of this has ever had anything to do with homosexuals getting married, they've been doing it for years. No state prohibits people from obtaining a marriage license because they are homosexual. I had a teacher in high school who was a flaming homosexual, he was married and had two children. BUT... "Marriage" is the union of a man and woman, not same-sex homosexual partnership. That's something people want to INCLUDE in marriage, and others are opposed to.
How does it set a precedent for changing age of consent, or allowing non-humans to consent?
There is already precedent for age of consent, as I pointed out, not too long ago, girls as young as 12 and 14 could marry legally in this country. The 'precedent' is establishing that marriage is there to accommodate your sexual lifestyle. Once that has been done, it has to be done for all sexual lifestyles to be "equal under the law" according to the Constitution. You can't pick and choose which sexual lifestyles (or groups) are appropriate and which are not. As it stood, there was no requirement regarding sexuality, marriage was simply between a man and woman, it didn't matter what their sexual proclivities were.
It might lead to some sort of accommodation for polygamous marriage, that I can accept.
So what's the limit? 15...20? What if I want to be Mac Daddy and find me a harem of bitches to draw welfare checks for us to live and love on? You down with that too?
As I said, I agree with the idea that the government would be better off using another term than marriage. Do you agree that such a change is unlikely to happen any time soon? Too many people want to use marriage legally, people are too accustomed to it, for it to easily be changed. That being the case, isn't allowing same sex marriage the best alternative available?
I think too many Liberal Democrats see this as a trophy issue they can't abandon no matter what. I also think too many Christian Republicans are dead set to fight it to the bitter end. So both political 'sides' are too politically invested to let it go at this point. This has not a damn thing to do with "what is easy to do" and everything to do with politics.
No, allowing "same sec marriage" is redefining marriage under the parameters of legitimizing sexual behavior, and I am not okay with that. I don't think it's the government's place to legitimize (or condemn) sexual lifestyles, and that is simply what we are allowing now. The same government with the power to tell us it's legal for same sex partners to marry, can tell us it's NOT legal. Does that fact escape some of you, or what?
What I think would be the BEST alternative, is to write legislation which completely removes the federal government from any recognition of "marital status" and replace this with CU. Urge states to adopt models based on the Federal example, and remove 'marriage' from the lexicon of all government. It's none of their damn business! This takes the issue off the table forever, it's DONE! SETTLED! Every side gets what they claim to want.... gays get to enjoy benefits, church ladies get to keep sanctity of religious ceremony... the state isn't endorsing sexual behavior or denying/allowing any rights because of sexual proclivity. It's a win/win/win/win solution. But it's not going to happen because Liberals smell blood in the water. This has to be turned into Civil Rights all over again, and they have to use it to denigrate and bash Christians. While Christians are always looking for a good 'crusade' ...so the cake is already in the oven.
I predict it will end up being a fucked up mess we wish had never been started.
I obviously was asking how any of your points have to do with same sex marriage. I'll try to avoid using gay marriage or homosexual marriage if you're going to quibble about it like this.
Is same sex marriage about sexual lifestyles? As far as I'm aware there is no requirement to either have sex at all, or reveal anything about one's sexual proclivities, when two people get married. This is true of opposite sex and same sex couples. So allowing same sex marriage is really gender based rather than based on sexual activity, is it not?
I was accepting the idea that allowing same sex marriage might lead to polygamous marriage. I wasn't stating an opinion on that type of union. I will say, though, that I don't really care what kind of arrangement consenting adults might want to enter into. I'm not sure how it would be dealt with legally; the complexities might make it prohibitive to treat it as marriage is now.
I think my point about the use of the term marriage is pretty apolitical. It is my belief that many people, regardless of political leanings, feel very strongly about the use of the word marriage in their government union. I don't think anything close to a majority of adults would be accepting of the government dropping the term marriage. It has nothing to do with politics at all.
As I said earlier, same sex marriage is about gender, not sexual lifestyle. A same sex couple could conceivably marry but never have sex, or only have sex with opposite gender people outside of their marriage. There is, as far as I'm aware, no requirement for any information about a person's sexual proclivities to be part of getting married. You are making it about the act of sex rather than about gender.
I don't think the fact the government can say it's not legal for same sex couples to marry has escaped anyone's notice. They've been saying that for many years now.
So, considering you seem to agree that changing the term for government unions to something other than marriage is not going to happen, what would you consider the best solution under those conditions?
I'm also very curious : how is it that changing the wording from marriage to civil unions would somehow make the issue no longer about sexual proclivities? How does the word marriage make this issue about sexual behavior? It sounds like you are using some definition I have not heard.