Who determines what is right or wrong? You? You do not appear to be exceptionally qualified for this task.
Nope, not me. Nor you. Those things were determined thousands of years ago when the first human societies were formed.
And I'm sure that everyone had a say. Yeah. Right. There is a bridge in Brooklyn that I can sell to you cheap.
Remember that these things come down to us only from males, and even then, only from the ones that were literate, not all. Women were kept illiterate, and, therefore, women's input, thoughts, philosophies, ideas, did not come down to us in posterity. Their intellectual input was neither encouraged nor preserved. Most times, their input was discouraged or punished, within Western cultures, and in other cultures, as well.
You can't slice humanity in half, and then claim that conclusions of your half are somehow "authentic" conclusions that come down from us from the ancients. They aren't.
Even in fairly "modern" times, with the European settlement of North America, males rejected any input from female persons on religious questions. Here is only one single instance out of many of this, regarding Anne Hutchinson, a religious leader living in the colony of Massachusett:
Anne Hutchinson | American religious leader
and then the hanging of Mary Dyer on Boston Common:
Mary Dyer - Wikipedia
For the crime of being a Christian who was a member and leader of the Society of Friends (Quakers).
I won't even go back to Hatsheput in ancient Egypt. The Gnostics. Boadicea leading the Icenae in standing up to the Romans in Britain.
What happened to the ancient "wise women" in European lands? Besides being burned to death?
Where are the female leaders and philosophers in the modern "Christian" churches?
At least some indigenous peoples, in North America and elsewhere, honor the wisdom of their grandmothers, mothers, and wives, and sisters.
You cannot reject sneer people out of society just because you have a penis.