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Are you having fun yet??LOL are you done fisting alreadyMaybe he had just as dysfunctional a family life as you did, and also went through holy hell growing up, and finally he decided he could only heal by facing life straight on, or by finding other relatives? I dunno?I just heard from a person who says he is my cousin on from my father's side who is doing a genealogy study for a family tree.
For a little background I was orphaned at 14 when my mother died of a drug overdose. My parents weren't married. My father who I really had no relationship with died when I was 8 he was an alcoholic and addict and died of liver failure. He was your run of the mill deadbeat dad and I actually didn't even find out he was dead until a year after he died.
I never met any of his family.
So this guy says he's my long lost cousin and wants to meet me and introduce me to his side of the family.
I still haven't decided what I'm going to do. These people are all just strangers to me and I really don't know if i want to know them.
Maybe you, could help him somehow? Maybe this whole thing is not for your healing, but for him?
I was just working on my ancestry/genealogy and thought I'd take a break and come to USMB and boom, there is your thread regarding genealogy.... Weird.
Then maybe your cousin needs some sort of healing, or is just an all around good guy who believes blood, is thicker than water???I don't think I need any healing. I dealt with my past and have literally not thought of it in a long time.Maybe he had just as dysfunctional a family life as you did, and also went through holy hell growing up, and finally he decided he could only heal by facing life straight on, or by finding other relatives? I dunno?I just heard from a person who says he is my cousin on from my father's side who is doing a genealogy study for a family tree.
For a little background I was orphaned at 14 when my mother died of a drug overdose. My parents weren't married. My father who I really had no relationship with died when I was 8 he was an alcoholic and addict and died of liver failure. He was your run of the mill deadbeat dad and I actually didn't even find out he was dead until a year after he died.
I never met any of his family.
So this guy says he's my long lost cousin and wants to meet me and introduce me to his side of the family.
I still haven't decided what I'm going to do. These people are all just strangers to me and I really don't know if i want to know them.
Maybe you, could help him somehow? Maybe this whole thing is not for your healing, but for him?
I was just working on my ancestry/genealogy and thought I'd take a break and come to USMB and boom, there is your thread regarding genealogy.... Weird.
From the little I know it seems that my father's extended family is pretty average and it was my father who was the black sheep
You ever regret not having kidsAre you having fun yet??LOL are you done fisting alreadyMaybe he had just as dysfunctional a family life as you did, and also went through holy hell growing up, and finally he decided he could only heal by facing life straight on, or by finding other relatives? I dunno?I just heard from a person who says he is my cousin on from my father's side who is doing a genealogy study for a family tree.
For a little background I was orphaned at 14 when my mother died of a drug overdose. My parents weren't married. My father who I really had no relationship with died when I was 8 he was an alcoholic and addict and died of liver failure. He was your run of the mill deadbeat dad and I actually didn't even find out he was dead until a year after he died.
I never met any of his family.
So this guy says he's my long lost cousin and wants to meet me and introduce me to his side of the family.
I still haven't decided what I'm going to do. These people are all just strangers to me and I really don't know if i want to know them.
Maybe you, could help him somehow? Maybe this whole thing is not for your healing, but for him?
I was just working on my ancestry/genealogy and thought I'd take a break and come to USMB and boom, there is your thread regarding genealogy.... Weird.
Then maybe your cousin needs some sort of healing, or is just an all around good guy who believes blood, is thicker than water???I don't think I need any healing. I dealt with my past and have literally not thought of it in a long time.Maybe he had just as dysfunctional a family life as you did, and also went through holy hell growing up, and finally he decided he could only heal by facing life straight on, or by finding other relatives? I dunno?I just heard from a person who says he is my cousin on from my father's side who is doing a genealogy study for a family tree.
For a little background I was orphaned at 14 when my mother died of a drug overdose. My parents weren't married. My father who I really had no relationship with died when I was 8 he was an alcoholic and addict and died of liver failure. He was your run of the mill deadbeat dad and I actually didn't even find out he was dead until a year after he died.
I never met any of his family.
So this guy says he's my long lost cousin and wants to meet me and introduce me to his side of the family.
I still haven't decided what I'm going to do. These people are all just strangers to me and I really don't know if i want to know them.
Maybe you, could help him somehow? Maybe this whole thing is not for your healing, but for him?
I was just working on my ancestry/genealogy and thought I'd take a break and come to USMB and boom, there is your thread regarding genealogy.... Weird.
From the little I know it seems that my father's extended family is pretty average and it was my father who was the black sheep
I'd be a little curious and at least meet him once, somewhere neutral... Bring your wife too....
But that is just my opinion....and talk with your wife about it....see what she thinks of it all....in general, (your mom not included) women have pretty good intuition and judgement on these kind of things, imho.
Thank you for the kind thought.I just heard from a person who says he is my cousin on from my father's side who is doing a genealogy study for a family tree.
For a little background I was orphaned at 14 when my mother died of a drug overdose. My parents weren't married. My father who I really had no relationship with died when I was 8 he was an alcoholic and addict and died of liver failure. He was your run of the mill deadbeat dad and I actually didn't even find out he was dead until a year after he died.
I never met any of his family.
So this guy says he's my long lost cousin and wants to meet me and introduce me to his side of the family.
I still haven't decided what I'm going to do. These people are all just strangers to me and I really don't know if i want to know them.
You don't need me to say I'm sorry about your parents but I am just the same. You didn't deserve that.
Yeah I might meet him for a beer but I don't have any expectations that it will lead to anythingAre you having fun yet??LOL are you done fisting alreadyMaybe he had just as dysfunctional a family life as you did, and also went through holy hell growing up, and finally he decided he could only heal by facing life straight on, or by finding other relatives? I dunno?I just heard from a person who says he is my cousin on from my father's side who is doing a genealogy study for a family tree.
For a little background I was orphaned at 14 when my mother died of a drug overdose. My parents weren't married. My father who I really had no relationship with died when I was 8 he was an alcoholic and addict and died of liver failure. He was your run of the mill deadbeat dad and I actually didn't even find out he was dead until a year after he died.
I never met any of his family.
So this guy says he's my long lost cousin and wants to meet me and introduce me to his side of the family.
I still haven't decided what I'm going to do. These people are all just strangers to me and I really don't know if i want to know them.
Maybe you, could help him somehow? Maybe this whole thing is not for your healing, but for him?
I was just working on my ancestry/genealogy and thought I'd take a break and come to USMB and boom, there is your thread regarding genealogy.... Weird.
Then maybe your cousin needs some sort of healing, or is just an all around good guy who believes blood, is thicker than water???I don't think I need any healing. I dealt with my past and have literally not thought of it in a long time.Maybe he had just as dysfunctional a family life as you did, and also went through holy hell growing up, and finally he decided he could only heal by facing life straight on, or by finding other relatives? I dunno?I just heard from a person who says he is my cousin on from my father's side who is doing a genealogy study for a family tree.
For a little background I was orphaned at 14 when my mother died of a drug overdose. My parents weren't married. My father who I really had no relationship with died when I was 8 he was an alcoholic and addict and died of liver failure. He was your run of the mill deadbeat dad and I actually didn't even find out he was dead until a year after he died.
I never met any of his family.
So this guy says he's my long lost cousin and wants to meet me and introduce me to his side of the family.
I still haven't decided what I'm going to do. These people are all just strangers to me and I really don't know if i want to know them.
Maybe you, could help him somehow? Maybe this whole thing is not for your healing, but for him?
I was just working on my ancestry/genealogy and thought I'd take a break and come to USMB and boom, there is your thread regarding genealogy.... Weird.
From the little I know it seems that my father's extended family is pretty average and it was my father who was the black sheep
I'd be a little curious and at least meet him once, somewhere neutral... Bring your wife too....
But that is just my opinion....and talk with your wife about it....see what she thinks of it all....in general, (your mom not included) women have pretty good intuition and judgement on these kind of things, imho.
I just heard from a person who says he is my cousin on from my father's side who is doing a genealogy study for a family tree.
For a little background I was orphaned at 14 when my mother died of a drug overdose. My parents weren't married. My father who I really had no relationship with died when I was 8 he was an alcoholic and addict and died of liver failure. He was your run of the mill deadbeat dad and I actually didn't even find out he was dead until a year after he died.
I never met any of his family.
So this guy says he's my long lost cousin and wants to meet me and introduce me to his side of the family.
I still haven't decided what I'm going to do. These people are all just strangers to me and I really don't know if i want to know them.
What's the record in THIS century?Yanks 27 red sux 9, it's a fact not a question curlyI don't blame you for running and hiding from my original question.The actual story is Yanks 27 red sox 9
Yankees 27What's the record in THIS century?Yanks 27 red sux 9, it's a fact not a question curlyI don't blame you for running and hiding from my original question.The actual story is Yanks 27 red sox 9
This century. I understand why you are ashamed to answer honestly.Yankers 27What's the record in THIS century?Yanks 27 red sux 9, it's a fact not a question curlyI don't blame you for running and hiding from my original question.The actual story is Yanks 27 red sox 9
Red S0x 9
Actually the red sux are not playing in a stadium built this century and the score is stillThis century. I understand why you are ashamed to answer honestly.Yankers 27What's the record in THIS century?Yanks 27 red sux 9, it's a fact not a question curlyI don't blame you for running and hiding from my original question.The actual story is Yanks 27 red sox 9
Red S0x 9
You mean the National Cathedral? America's most beloved ballpark?
The only baseball stadium older than the collesium [sic] in rome [sic]
Yea the termite capital of baseballYou mean the National Cathedral? America's most beloved ballpark?
The only baseball stadium older than the collesium [sic] in rome [sic]
Still too chicken shit to answer my question. That's alright, everyone knows the answer.Actually the red sux are not playing in a stadium built this century and the score is stillThis century. I understand why you are ashamed to answer honestly.Yankers 27What's the record in THIS century?Yanks 27 red sux 9, it's a fact not a question curlyI don't blame you for running and hiding from my original question.The actual story is Yanks 27 red sox 9
Red S0x 9
YANKErS 27
red sox 9
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And you are trying to defend a city that is one giant landfill?Yea the termite capital of baseball
Yankees 27Still too chicken shit to answer my question. That's alright, everyone knows the answer.Actually the red sux are not playing in a stadium built this century and the score is stillThis century. I understand why you are ashamed to answer honestly.Yankers 27What's the record in THIS century?Yanks 27 red sux 9, it's a fact not a question curlyI don't blame you for running and hiding from my original question.The actual story is Yanks 27 red sox 9
Red S0x 9
YANKErS 27
red sox 9
...
Boston harborAnd you are trying to defend a city that is one giant landfill?Yea the termite capital of baseball
I probably will at least meet him for a beer or a coffee but I don't know if I want it to go any further than that.I just heard from a person who says he is my cousin on from my father's side who is doing a genealogy study for a family tree.
For a little background I was orphaned at 14 when my mother died of a drug overdose. My parents weren't married. My father who I really had no relationship with died when I was 8 he was an alcoholic and addict and died of liver failure. He was your run of the mill deadbeat dad and I actually didn't even find out he was dead until a year after he died.
I never met any of his family.
So this guy says he's my long lost cousin and wants to meet me and introduce me to his side of the family.
I still haven't decided what I'm going to do. These people are all just strangers to me and I really don't know if i want to know them.
I dont see any harm in connecting with him unless you just dont want to.
At worst he could ask for money.
My Wife was adopted. Her parents knew the girl who was pregnant. She apparently got pregnant while her husband was overseas in the military.
Her parents paid all her medical bills related to the pregnancy and gave her pocket money.
...Oh,the Wife had the opportunity to meet Her mother and other relatives but she said no.
All the best to you.Yeah I think I'll answer his e mail today.Ya can just meet em once and take it from there
I've certainly got nothing to lose.
