I understand that. I'm not trying to minimize or erase it.
My perspective is:
Christians should not accuse Jews of "killing Jesus" for the reason that Jesus said "let him without sin cast the first stone". People take that to mean we shouldn't even recognize sin/misdeeds in others. No, but we shouldn't condemn them for their sins (or "throw stones") because WE are also sinners.
I prefer to "emulate" Jesus the Christ as instructed in the Holy Scriptures (John 13:15). What did Jesus have to say about the Jews of His generation, the leaders of the faith that eventually killed the only begotten of the Father, Jesus Himself? Jesus charged them to their faces of having the blood of God's prophets on their hands, and presents a prophecy to them...that they will be punished by God for their hypocrisy and heresy..........in that very same generation.
"You serpents, you brood of vipers, how are you to escape being sentenced to hell? Therefore I sent you prophets, and wise men and scribes, some of whom you will kill and crucify (Himself), and some you will flog in your synagogues and persecute from town to town, so that on you may come all the righteous blood shed on earth, from the blood of the righteous Abel to the blood of Zehariah, the son of Barachiah, whom you murdered between the sanctuary and the altar. TRULY I SAY TO YOU, THESE THINGS WILL COME UPON THIS GENERATION." -- Matthew 23:33-36
Jesus was not "tolerant" of anyone that would break the law of the prophets. Christianity is based upon TRUTH and living by that truth........not false appeasement to men, but rather the worship of the Father in Spirit and Truth.
Truth? Scriptural Truth? Jesus was correct...........God punished Biblical Israel for their sins, Biblical Isarel was wiped from the face of the earth in the late 1st century with only a remenet of the faithful finding salvation through the blood that Christ shed. Christianity was reserved expressly for the Jews of Biblical Israel for the 1st 10 years of its existence (Acts 10), but only a rement was saved, the rest fell to their own reprobate mentality. (Romans 11) Today there is only one path to the Father and it goes through Christ Jesus, "I am the truth, the way, and the life, no one comes to the Father but by Me." -- John 14:6
Can the modern Jew be saved? Of course.........just like everyone else, for today there is neither Jew nor Greek/Gentile (Gal. 3:28-29).......everyone once baptized into Jesus are joint heirs to the promise made to Father Abraham.