Why don't you enjoy yourself and stop trying to get me to celebrate a pagan holiday I don't want to celebrate with Hallmark cards and crappy gifts? I just went back to work after ten years of surgeries and therapy so it can't be my god.Poor guy.
What is your profession? Slave?
In the middle ages for example 1/3rd of a year had been holy days - for everyone. So why do you live in fear of Christmas and Thanksgiving? Absurde.
Sorry - but it looks like that "work" became your god. We Christians made work to an important thing ("ora et labora et lege") - but not to a god. If you are a slave of your job then you need help. What about to visit a Christmas market - or something else like this - and to have some fun with your wife and children?