Wait a minute. Do you believe gays are born differently than you or are you saying they, and you, are the same and at some point chose to be straight/gay?There is no proof that queers are 'born different' and convincing children they can choose their sex is insanity. No wonder the kid blew his brains out. People like you are to blame.
How close were you to choosing gay? 50/50? 75/25%