You worry to much.... Everything isn't about easy going and being without absolutely no struggle in life. In fact it's the struggle or rather the lows, the highs, and the beating of the odds that make all of us to become way more stronger, more empathetic, more compassionate, more caring, more resilient, more loving, more humble, more closer to God's word, and more happy as we triumph in each trial and trib that we go through.
Funny how it seems that you feel as if people can somehow escape the human condition in life, and therefore they should at all cost try to shun or avoid somehow the thing's that are actually the building blocks of one's complete character in life.
Why is that ? You got some kind of story to tell ?