Women are just as capable of being engineers as men, guy, and physical toil is just not as important as it used to be.
Prove it, prove one example of a society being built up and maintained by women.
Men and women are very similar, but also very different. If you look at any bell curve graph, men make up the bottom and top for a reason in pretty much all areas. Men are all the crazy rich CEO's, and they're also pretty much all of the homeless. Men are all the ones who take the big risks and get success, and also the ones who take big risks and die. Also, men are just mentally designed to be problem solvers and think bigger picture than women do, and that's biological and evolutionary psychology in action based on our bodies and how we evolved.
Notice, chess has no physical advantage, yet the men's world champion can dominate the women's world champion. The same goes for bowling, billiards, etc. Why? Because men are wired to be more.. for lack of better words.. obsessed, insane, etc. They will practice for hundreds of hours and sacrifice more. We know women don't desire to do this as much, all the data is there by the jobs they choose and the hours they work.
So you can say that all you want, but it's just an untrue feminist trope.
Yes, how dare those women want "power".
Well, it is sort of weird to have sexist movements that push further beyond egalitarianism. Women have nearly all of the true power in our society. We cater to them because they control like 85% of purchasing power, and women should be protected, and men should protect to fulfill our biological gender roles. However, women should have a little appreciation for what men do for them.. and modern feminism is actually convincing women they could pretty much do whatever they want and not get any consequences. They can go into any back alley and hold their own in a fight.. they can work in 100 degree heat repairing roofs... because, girl power? No. They don't, and they can't, and there's nothing wrong with that. You've got to stop lying to women, because the proof is in the pudding that when they try to act like high-octane men (working 60 hours, being aggressive, etc.), they generally aren't happy and don't get the same fulfillment. All of this is out there, you just stick to you slogans and bumper stickers from leftist NGO's.
Look, your terminal misogyny aside
ad hom fallacy
you are complaining that women are waiting to start families, without understanding WHY they are waiting to start families, and that has little to do with "Feminism". It has to do with 50 years of the wealthy dismantling the middle class in this country, where it takes you until your 30s to have the stability to afford kids, and by then, your biological clocks are running out.
More than one thing can be true at once. There are indeed new financial pressures that can make things difficult. However, social pressures don't change biology.. and our modern feminist culture is promoting and convincing young women in their early 20's to put off getting what would by the data likely make them the most happy (a well-off successful, attractive guy who wants to start a family) in order to "find themself", "focus on their career", etc... and we see it's biting them in the ass when they think it'll all be the same circumstances once they are 32 and "ready to settle down". It hurts all of society.. women, men, children, and rate of replacement