Not sure where you live, but you could not be more wrong.
Indiana is one of the earlier craft beer states, probably due to our proximity to Cincinnati a true beer town. So I have been surrounded by breweries and craft beer for 30 years now. Most of America has few breweries, and may not have experienced craft beer until just in the past 10 years.
Anyway, there are magnificent beer choices that are bottled. And not all are "over-hopped"... which they are not. The high hop content
is the style.
My favorite styles are Marzen, red ales and brown ales. All are low hops. However I do like hoppy beers that are done right.
Lucky enough to live, arguably, the best hopped beer breweries in the world - Three Floyds. Approaching their beer with an open mind...is... mind blowing. Such as Apocalypse Cow. (
Apocalypse Cow | 3 Floyds Brewing Co. )
Who would ever think of putting Lactose sugar in an IPA? And the result is a flavor explosion followed by an amazing soft/sweetness.
Perhaps you are mainly talking about macro beers in America. To which, of course, I agree are not even beer. Busweiser, Miller, Coors - NONE are beer. What they are is water trying to be beer, or beer trying to be water.