I must be a terrible father to flushed miscarriages. My actual kids seem to be doing fine with one in medical school and the other just now in his freshman year in college. My wife and I were emotionally taxed getting her body to keep the second kid (or would you call it our 4th?) but we didnt morn the miscarriage as people morn a dead child because... are you ready.... they werent children. We mourned the fact we werent going to have a kid.. not that we lost a kid.if you had any respect for their life you could,, but whats the use in bringing up a tragedy when you had no respect for them to start with,,,