The city I was born in had about 285,000 people the year I was born. The year I graduated from high school, it reached the million mark. In the area now is about 4 million after all the years since and the border was left open. Fortunately, we have avoided the murders in other big cities havwe been experiencing because we honor the long blue line with gratitude and appreciation.
As for families, we love children in this part of the world. They're our future, and hopefully, they always will be. So I guess we agree, we don't see eye to eye, but it really doesn't matter because life goes on and we're going to leave it hopefully a better place than when we arrived. I'm a lifelong optimistic conservative, but I believe in charity rather than dying with a huge bank account. Hope you get over your anger for people who see life from their own perspectives. I blame the professors of unkindness to families. And there are a lot of them out there in great and small towns.
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