Stop BSing. Being responsible before conception is what birth control is all about. From what you say, people who don't want another child or don't want a child yet should just give up on their marriages and long-term relationships and live celibate lives.Bottom line, can't feed them don't breed them, can't accept responsibility taking care of them then be be responsible before conceiving them
Children who are unwanted, unloved, whose mothers are not prepared to mentally or materially raise a child, obviously have a greater tendency to fall into crime. The statistics demonstrate this. (Often such children have no fathers as they also did not want the child.) Of course that is not the reason the women’s movement fought for control over their reproductive life, any more than it is a reasonit fought for the vote. After abortions, women often have loved and wanted children later, when they are ready.
It's REALLY that simple