Zone1 Divorce - The BIGGEST "Red Flag" of them all

[Leo123]

What you are going against is the fact young adults are becoming more independent of each other. The growing number that remain single only will strengthen the nation.

Intact, American, heterosexual families will strengthen the nation. Anything else will result in chaos. It's time to take a forensic look at our educational system that is turning out clueless, narcissistic, radical, leftist low information loons.

Women, especially, need to be taught real feminism, not this fake 'feminist' anti-male tripe. Today most of them cannot, or refuse, to even define what a woman is. We even have a SCOTUS jurist who could not answer that question. Women need to step up and become female again and realize they are not men and can never be like men and celebrate their own natal sex.

 

[initforme]

Intact, American, heterosexual families will strengthen the nation. Anything else will result in chaos. It's time to take a forensic look at our educational system that is turning out clueless, narcissistic, radical, leftist low information loons.

Single, independent working productive young people will carry this nation. The trend shall continue.

 

[Leo123]

Single, independent working productive young people will carry this nation. The trend shall continue.

How will they do that?

 

[initforme]

Intact, American, heterosexual families will strengthen the nation. Anything else will result in chaos. It's time to take a forensic look at our educational system that is turning out clueless, narcissistic, radical, leftist low information loons.

Women, especially, need to be taught real feminism, not this fake 'feminist' anti-male tripe. Today most of them cannot, or refuse, to even define what a woman is. We even have a SCOTUS jurist who could not answer that question. Women need to step up and become female again and realize they are not men and can never be like men and celebrate their own natal sex.

Its very difficult to see your point of view on the chaos.

 

[initforme]

And im a tradionally married christian male with 3 kids of my own.

 

[Leo123]

Its very difficult to see your point of view on the chaos.

Children out of wedlock, who is going to take responsibility? How is a child supposed to have a decent upbringing without a Mom a Dad and a home? Isn't that pretty chaotic?

 

[Leo123]

And im a tradionally married christian male with 3 kids of my own.

If that is true, why do you promote young people staying independent and single? Do you have a miserable life or something? Also, I asked you who will be taking care of all the out of wedlock children in your vision.

 

[initforme]

If that is true, why do you promote young people staying independent and single? Do you have a miserable life or something? Also, I asked you who will be taking care of all the out of wedlock children in your vision.

Young people should become financially strong and independent LONG before ever thinking of getting martied or having kids. If thatvmeans holfing off until the mid 30s so be it. Building from nothing no longer is viable. Accept this fact.

 

[initforme]

How will they do that?

By working and being productive independently of each other. Divorce and abortion go away. A much stronger society.

 

[Leo123]

Young people should become financially strong and independent LONG before ever thinking of getting martied or having kids. If thatvmeans holfing off until the mid 30s so be it. Building from nothing no longer is viable. Accept this fact.

What happened to single and independent? So, even you can see how ridiculous that statement was. Now you want women to wait until their eggs are geriatric working their asses off for a truncated career when they decide they have to actually raise the kids they are making with their old eggs that create children with genetic defects like autism.

This situation was brought about by feminism whose over emphasis on women being just like men has diluted the wages a man can earn on his own to support his wife, children and family. Feminists have denigrated the societal position of housewife and homemaker to slave like bondage. None of that was ever true across the board. Being a wife, homemaker and mother should be held to at least the same societal position as a man with a career.

As long as women settle for beta males who can do nothing but be sperm donors, they will never be truly fulfilled.

 

[initforme]

What happened to single and independent? So, even you can see how ridiculous that statement was. Now you want women to wait until their eggs are geriatric working their asses off for a truncated career when they decide they have to actually raise the kids they are making with their old eggs that create children with genetic defects like autism.

This situation was brought about by feminism whose over emphasis on women being just like men has diluted the wages a man can earn on his own to support his wife, children and family. Feminists have denigrated the societal position of housewife and homemaker to slave like bondage. None of that was ever true across the board. Being a wife, homemaker and mother should be held to at least the same societal position as a man with a career.

As long as women settle for beta males who can do nothing but be sperm donors, they will never be truly fulfilled.

If people cant afford kids until later in life thats the way it is. Perhaps unions need to make a comeback? And we need to make healthcare alot less expensive?

 

[Leo123]

If people cant afford kids until later in life thats the way it is. Perhaps unions need to make a comeback? And we need to make healthcare alot less expensive?

Sorry, I don't settle on 'that's the way it is.' Women have diluted the workforce and have abdicated raising children in a heterosexual family. They have precluded men from being able to be a sole provider and supporter of wife and children.

 

[initforme]

Sorry, I don't settle on 'that's the way it is.' Women have diluted the workforce and have abdicated raising children in a heterosexual family. They have precluded men from being able to be a sole provider and supporter of wife and children.

You want women out of the workforce at a time when it takes 2 middle class salaries combined to barely, just barely scrape by? Nope. Not buying it. In fact i would tell young folk to hold off on marriage until later in life.

 

[Leo123]

You want women out of the workforce at a time when it takes 2 middle class salaries combined to barely, just barely scrape by? Nope. Not buying it. In fact i would tell young folk to hold off on marriage until later in life.

Yes, if women stayed home and raised a family instead of trying to be like men, wages for men would go up. You seem to be constantly missing my point. Does your wife work?

 

[Lockback]

People today, interested in relationships and marriage all talking about RED FLAGS, yet they IGNORE the biggest red flag of them all.

Divorce is a HUGE, GIGANTIC RED FLAG all on its own.

Divorce means one of them, or both of them don't have a clue how a relationship works, much less do they acknowledge the fact that one or both of them can't be bothered to admit to, or work on problems.....especially extreme narcissism and emotional baggage.

Not something I'd ever do to myself!!! Never get involved with divorced people.

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My wife and I have both been divorced.
We were friends before we got married.
And it's been fantastic.
My ex-wife cheated on me.
And her ex-husband cheated on her.
Both were selfish egomaniacs.
We're not. It's been great.

 

[Lockback]

Several of my relatives are involved in long term relationships but they all refuse to get married. In all cases, both parties are divorced at least once. It seems that the main reason for not tying the knot is financial.

I get that.
I'm of the opinion that, hey, whatever works for people.

 

[Leo123]

My wife and I have both been divorced.
We were friends before we got married.
And it's been fantastic.
My ex-wife cheated on me.
And her ex-husband cheated on her.
Both were selfish egomaniacs.
We're not. It's been great.

Yes, cheating is a deal breaker for sure.

 

[initforme]

Yes, if women stayed home and raised a family instead of trying to be like men, wages for men would go up. You seem to be constantly missing my point. Does your wife work?

Nope. Neither do i. Been retired over 25 years. My wife DID work, for 35 years. It took a combined 200 thousand dollars per year 25 years ago to create a decent life. Today its more than that.

 

[Lockback]

Yes, cheating is a deal breaker for sure.

It sure as hell is.
It's sad how you can be married to somebody for 15 years and totally trust them and then see that happen.
I was in the hospital for COVID years later, in 2020, and found out later that my ex died the day after I was released from the hospital.
I have no idea what she died of.
Nor do I care.
It was a real "Oh well" moment.

 

[initforme]

Yes, cheating is a deal breaker for sure.

Yhere is about a 50 percent chance a marrisge ends in divorce. If divorce becomes more difficult expect the marriage rate to decrease bigly. Rightfully so. The old way no longer is viable.