- I know a person named Bella that got in a bad situation because the school counselor didn't give a crap if they hurt you. The counselor doesn't care about rumors that are going around that the counselors didn't even inform the principal and the parents. Bella told two counselors about the situation but they pushed her subject away like she was nothing, and she didn't get to tell the whole story with proof.
- The counselors and the actual principal doesn't even look at the camera's for proof that someone was stalking someone, Bella and her ex best friend Robert had the same classes in a row. Bella knows how slow it takes Robert to leave the classroom to the next class which was Hospitality. They both had the same class two times in a row and Bella took the stairs that she always takes because its faster to get to class. And Robert took the same stairs as I did. Robert didn't arrive to Hospitality class until one minute later.
- Second: They don't care if people with disabilities is making death threats to another person with disabilities. On the bullying hot line that is connected to the school/career center, they make up excuses that they never got the message when clearly they did because Bella used all suspects in one message. she said 4 suspects names but there were only 3 in one situation. Bella got to tell about the other one suspect before the message was over.
- Third: When there were bad rumors going around that are illegal, the counselors didn't care, they hurt Bella emotionally. When Bella got manipulated by the bully who started it, the counselors said Bella started it without explaining how. And the big principal believed them without any evidence that Bella started it. If a bully is telling you there's a rumor going around when there wasn't in the first place technically that bully started the rumor by saying there were rumors when there wasn't in the first place.
- The rumor was very bad and it made Bella very depressed and she wanted to kill herself when the counselors let the bully manipulate her. The fake reason why she wanted to kill herself was because of how her ex best friend Robert let his friends say death threats to her. It was so obvious that wasn't the real reason because those death threats happened about 5 months before she heard about the rumors. The real reason why Bella wanted to kill herself, well more like Bella wanted to fake her death death and start a new life. The real reason Bella wanted to run away is because she let the bully, the counselors and the others manipulate her on thinking the rumor was true when it wasn't. The counselors should of done there job correctly.
*If you would want to know the full story about the rumors, let me know please. It was wrong on how everyone mis-treated Bella because the counselors were too lazy to help Bella out on her situation before it got worse and it did get worse.
Yeah, listen kid, all of this is too convoluted for me to give you any real good advice.
All I can say, is that the majority of USMB's members are adults. Disfuntional in some way, but adults. They all may act somewhat immature, but, by and large, they do not bully, and would love to help you. They are far more interested in ethics, morals, culture, and politics than gossip. And this. . . seems so fleeting?
I know it seems REALLY like the end of the world and a terribly tragic situation to be in right now, but, unless you share specifics, nobody can tell what you are talking about, and with less than a few hundred posts, no one is going to care to PM you. I'm sorry if that seems cold, but the world, the REAL WORLD, and reality is harsh. If you want people to care, you need to care. Clearly, you don't. You have been here less than a year, posted less than a hundred post, etc.
Now, I have been a crisis counselor, and a recognize someone who is in emotional crises even w/o specifics. You wouldn't have bothered writing as much as you did if you felt you had very little places to turn for advice. Either that or you are desperately lonely and just seeking emotional contact. Too bad we don't have Delta4's email in that case. . . .
I can only guess as to the reasons why your issues are not being taken seriously by the administration of your school and/or your parents. Only two reasons come to mind.
The first reason is a prison of your own making. As a grew up, I was different. Society and my peers picked on me, and so, I became what they expected. And then, my parents treated me that way. Social isolation is not fun. So I can understand where you might be coming from. In the teen years it can be absolute torture, surely. So if you act out, you have less credibility. Folks tend to ignore and ridicule those they perceive as different. You only give them more reason to when you act out. It's a feed back loop. I was there, I know. Eventually, you will have to make a choice, do you want to be different for positive reasons, or negative reasons. I eventually decided my high level IQ and perceptive ability that people thought I was so different for, could be used in a positive way, rather than a smart ass way.
OTH, if you and your family come from less wealthy and less powerful means, and those kids that are bullying you are more popular and come from families that are wealthy and influential, with a lot of control over the school board or lots of influence over the voters? Well, it wouldn't surprise me at all if nobody in the establishment hears your cries for help. Especially if your face is covered with piercings and your hair is dyed weird colors. The establishment powerful in the high school hierarchy, is the same in there as it is in the working world. Get used to it now kid, it doesn't change. Conform now and you will have more credibility.
But, if you look and act normal and you are just poor and lonely and your big mouth just got you into trouble? Keep your trap shut, your head down, and wait it out. You are out of there at 18 and you never have to see any of those people again.
