I don't know whether to laugh or cry! Your church is worried about "legalism" and go around searching yours and others' lives for potential legalisms? Never heard of "legalism" in Church, but apparently it distresses other Christian denominations to the point they worry about "working"? They worry they might not have time for prayer, to sit and talk with God? To reflect and meditate? Oh that's right. Non-Catholic Christians don't believe in reflecting and meditating over Christ's life. They go nuts when they see a Catholic with a rosary in their meditations and reflections on the life of Christ.
Catholics pray, talk, meditate, reflect, and when refreshed and renewed, often end with, "Here I am, Lord. Send me." You see, one of our hymns about being the Body of Christ ends with this verse....
On the rock of Peter, see my Church I build.
Come receive my spirit, with my gifts be filled.
For you are my body, you're my hands and feet.
Speak my word of life to everyone you meet.
While your church might teach "your works make you feel holy and righteous" my church teaches we are merely unworthy servants who have done only their duty.