I didnt inquire about your 1 man opinion regarding what you think its about.
I was obviously posing a question to folks who believe in eternal damnation at the same time as they believe in free will.
If thats not you, my comment doesnt pertain to you.
You see, that is one area where I need answers. I'm now of the mindset that eternal damnation is not eternal torment.
The Bible talks about destruction. I'm inclined to think that if you die, and are not saved, then you are simply destroyed, as if you never existed, not sent to a hell where you are tormented night and day, burning and writhing in pain.
The weeping and gnashing of teeth might be the pain of knowing that you are about to be eternally separated from God, and you are about to be destroyed from existence. There are some religions who believe this to be the case.
Think of it like this, let's say you had a dog, and this dog was mean. He bit the postman, your neighbors, and everytime you punish him and try to correct him, it keeps doing the same things. Now, are you going to take this dog and throw it into a fire and let it burn and scream in agony, or are you just going to shoot the dog and remove it from existence?
So, having said that, how would anyone think that a loving and merciful God would do that to us, if we wouldn't even do that to a rabid dog?
Fear cant be a motivator for salvation, it has to be a choice of free will to serve God.
I may be wrong, but that is my current thought on it.