EXACTLY
And what an idiot I am for engaging him this long.
Actually, the "render" quote has several meanings and several interpretations. One of which is if you try to serve both God and mammon, you serve neither. But personally, I think the more appropriate quote is Jesus to Pilot, "my kingdom is not of this world ....." Jesus was not crucified for disobeying civil law (Rome) but rather religious law (the Priests of the Temple.)
The Elizabethan compromise was about just this. People are free to believe whatever they choose, but failure to submit to the authority of the crown will result in unpleasant things.
Again, I personally would prefer not to use the power of the state, though the state undeniably HAS the power. I'd rather see the homophobes lampooned and pilloried and boycotted and picketed. It would be good sport.