Jesus said nothing anti-gay or homophobe. Quite to opposite. (He also refuted your claim of it's a decision).
But I wouldn't expect you to know the Bible.
You sure don't know the Bible, I'll educate you some more.
Matthew 19:4Jesus answered, "Haven't you read that the Creator made them male and female in the beginning 5and that he said, 'That's why a man will leave his father and mother and will remain united with his wife, and the two will be one'? 6So they are no longer two but one. Therefore, don't let anyone separate what God has joined together."
The Creator made man and woman to be married, not homosexuals.
Matthew 19:12"For there are eunuchs who were born that way from their mother's womb; and there are eunuchs who were made eunuchs by men; and
there are also eunuchs who made themselves eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven.He who is able to accept this, let him accept it."
This is the verse homosexuals literally HATE. There will be homosexuals in the kingdom of heaven, they will have forsaken all their lusting for others of the same sex, some will do so through will power, others will have castrated themselves to get there. OH YES THEY WILL!
Just as some heterosexuals will have castrated themselves, because they could not control their lusts for the opposite sex, and pedophiles who never committed an act against a child, due to the fact that they too, castrated themselves instead of committing a horrendous crime and harming a child, they too will have a place in the kingdom of heaven.
Mark 9:43"If your hand causes you to stumble,
cut it off; it is better for you to enter life crippled, than, having your two hands, to go into hell, into the unquenchable fire,
Matthew 5:
29"If your right eye makes you stumble,
tear it out and throw it from you; for it is better for you to lose one of the parts of your body, than for your whole body to be thrown into hell. 30"If your right hand makes you stumble,
cut it off and throw it from you; for it is better for you to lose one of the parts of your body, than for your whole body to go into hell.
Pretty self explanatory. It's sometimes hard to hear the truth, but this is the truth. I won't lie to someone to spare their feelings, and get them thrown in hell. That would also get me thrown into hell.