The solution is to let gays marry as they will but not impose that marriage on any unwilling person.
You mean like children in general who now face the bastardization of their original vital benefit of both mother and father from the 1,000s year old marriage contract? If you think gays are "born that way" their numbers should remain fixed and this might not be as much of a threat to society as time goes on. But if you understand as I do, that deviant sex addictions are learned and passed on in widening circles, this is a direct threat to the very fabric of all we've known as a human society. It's what happened in Sodom...gay became chic via the stamp of approval. It became so whack over time + monkey see, monkey do, that God finally had to step in and destroy the entire culture. Read Jude 1 & Romans 1 for details.
So "live and let live" and "it's all good" is a very naive solution to a problem whose enormity we have yet to conceive of.....four generations of all male families who've never known a mother or grandmother? This isn't a slippery slope argument. It's merely a prediction of fact using logic and deduction.
The states were/are unwilling, most of them (even flaky fruit & nut California), to embrace this degradation of their social future. Yet it was imposed upon them as they were unwilling. So, you're against Obergefell. Thanks for saying that.