It's called social engineering or at least social tinkering. It should be illegal.
That's exactly what it is...
by force. No tinkering about it when you have 5 activist Justices forcing 50 states against their will to dissolve the old main contract benefit to children of getting both a vital mother and father from marriage. And fining a young couple in Oregon, effectively demolishing their business. And several governors' careers (courtesy of the lesbian Maddow) ruined the moment they spoke out against gay marriage. And throwing a Christian in jail no less for refusing to promote gay marriage.
Scientology does the same thing...only less aggressively possibly.
Please give just one, EAL LIFE example of a child who does not have both a mother and a father, but would have if it were not for same sex marriage. Just one
Any same sex marriage that has children.
Most caring same sex parents bring in a third party. A relative, close friend or even an opposite sex biological parent to assist with emotional development. That is only of marginal help. Men learn how to relate to women within their own nuclear family. A man raised without seeing his role model interacting with women, will never be able to do so himself. He will be part of the dysfunctional mass, er, mess.
I will point out that the dysfunctions suffered by the adult children of same sex parents are in many ways the same as those raised by single parents who never remarried or had any long term, stable, relationships. Fortunately for these troubled souls, we live in a pathological culture where dysfunction and unhappiness is the measuring stick of normalcy.