When I say 500 years, I'm including today. Stephen F Covey talks about the emotional bank account in his book 7 Habits of Highly Effective People. You have an emotional bank account; with every slight, money is taken out. The bank effectively represent your relationship with that person. Kind of like in an RPG where you get points for every interaction or decision the NPC likes. White people have taken out of that bank account non stop for the past 500 years. You cannot force me to trust white people, respect and trust is earned.