Another teen bullying victim

[Dr Grump]

i dont feel sorry for him. stand up for yourself. dont be a baby. if you like pleasuring other men sexually, be proud of it. dont think that you have the right to be so humiliated you can kill yourself. just like the tea baggers. if you enjoy pleasuring other men sexually, stand up for yourself. to reiterate, i dont feel sorry for some dumbass that killed himself because he was embarassed. thats no reason to kill yourself, and thus makes you a *****.

Because we're all cut from the same cloth, right?

 

[wyomingpatriot]

yes, dr gump, just assume i'm a hateful, homophobic asshole. it's easier for you. all i'm saying is that no matter how humiliated a person is, that's no reason to kill yourself. what a dumb shit. that's all i'm saying. an 18 year old...do they really have a grasp on anything? that's why i say stand up for yourself. i believe in gay marriage. i believe in basically every legislation passed that stands up for gays. i think youre a ****** yourself, if youre so ignorant that you honestly believe that gays choose to be gay. having said that, i think that kid was an idiot, and he doesnt deserve any media attention. i dont pity him or his family at all. he did a great disfavor to his family, doing what he did.

 

[Sunni Man]

thats no reason to kill yourself, and thus makes you a *****.

Isn't that what the guy wanted to be!?!?

 

[ABikerSailor]

yes, dr gump, just assume i'm a hateful, homophobic asshole. it's easier for you. all i'm saying is that no matter how humiliated a person is, that's no reason to kill yourself. what a dumb shit. that's all i'm saying. an 18 year old...do they really have a grasp on anything? that's why i say stand up for yourself. i believe in gay marriage. i believe in basically every legislation passed that stands up for gays. i think youre a ****** yourself, if youre so ignorant that you honestly believe that gays choose to be gay. having said that, i think that kid was an idiot, and he doesnt deserve any media attention. i dont pity him or his family at all. he did a great disfavor to his family, doing what he did.

You're right.......you're not a hateful homophobic asshole, you're just a garden variety hateful asshole, because you have no compassion for your fellow human.

Ever been a suicide counselor? I have, and not all people can stand up for themselves very easily if others keep kicking them down.


Good luck here dipshit.......I'll be keeping an eye out for you.

 

[Rinata]

Homosexuals are both mentally and emotionally defective.

If they commit suicide it is their own fault for choosing a perverted lifestyle.

Think about this. Why would anybody want to choose it, even if they could?? People are cruel to gays, both mentally and pysically. They don't know what to expect from anyone when they come out of the closet. Are the people they love going to accept them or reject them?? Oh yeah, who wouldn't choose that life!!

Do you get the point?? They should just be able to be what they want to be. They are not asking anybody to be like them. They only want to be free to live their lives. It's not an unreasonable desire.

 

[Rinata]

Homosexuals are both mentally and emotionally defective.

If they commit suicide it is their own fault for choosing a perverted lifestyle.

With all due respect.. GO **** YOURSELF! You're as bigoted as Fred Phelps and his sexually insecure group of cult members.

I'm sure if it was your kin being bullied, you feel a wholllle lot different. Disagree with gay marriage all you want, I respect that view point, but to say "it is their own fualt", is utterly ridiculous and makes you look like a bigot. They don't choose to be gay.. They're born that way. For them to be picked on is fucked up. And you saying shit like this just keeps the bullying going. Children hear their parents say stupid shit and repeat it at school.. Leading to precious lives being taken.

You're a ******* asshole.

If Muslims, Hispanics and Blacks 'hate' gays it makes it kinda hard to be the party of minorities when the minorities hate each other, huh?

Then isn't it great that they don't??? As usual, you love to make things up. Dumb broad.

 

[Gadawg73]

Every kid gets bullied by someone while growing up.

Heck, it's like a rite of passage during childhood.

It's how you learn to stand up for yourself.

Oh, yes, being bullied does so much for one's mental health.

We will continue to have harassment of homosexuals as long as we have males who aren't sure of their own sexuality, and so have to prove it to themselves by picking on people that they perceive as "gay."

And we will continue to have harassment of anyone who is a little bit different in any way so long as we continue to allow it to happen.

Biologically children have natural aversions to certain things.

A kid will see a snake or a spider and jump back.

They see a pile of dog poop and instinctively go around it and won't touch it.

It's genetically hard wired into their brain from thousands of generations of human experience.

Same with being around a homo.

Children can perceive that they are defective and that older ones can be dangerous; such as pedophiles.

Sadly, our government now wants to reverse natural human behavior and teach that homos are normal and good.

Spiders, snakes, dog shit, and homosexuals. Sure, I can see where you would lump all of those under one heading, sure.

Give Sunni Man a break my man. He is a dumbass conditioned by religion.
IOW, a KOOK.

 

[Gadawg73]

Sunni Man, tell us all about when YOU CHOSE to be heterosexual.
I never chose man. I WAS BORN heterosexual.
You may choose those things my man but normal folks don't.
Please elaborate how you came to your choice and what was the tipping point that tilted the scale.

 

[ABikerSailor]

Yeah Sunnidiot.........since you "chose" to be hetero, what EXACTLY was it that caused you to turn from your gay lifestyle into being hetero?

How long did it take you for your "choice"?

Tell us what the defining moment was........possibly when you found out that you have no talent as a wedding planner?

 

[Oscar Wao]

What the hell is the problem? Did anyone ever think of handling bullies like we used to in the good old days. You learn how to defend yourself and you bust their nose. Some of you whiney limp wristed dweebs need to be a man if you want someone to stick their penis in your ass and not get laughed at.

This type of bullying isn't like the Scott Farcus bullying Ralphie type of bullying, where he just picked on him because he wanted to pick on him.

This is a different type of "bullying." It's persecution.

 

[ABikerSailor]

Yep, Paul's right........if you specifically target only 1 group of people to the exclusion of others, it's not bullying, it IS persecution.

Well Said Oscar!

 

[SmarterThanHick]

yes, dr gump, just assume i'm a hateful, homophobic asshole. it's easier for you. all i'm saying is that no matter how humiliated a person is, that's no reason to kill yourself. what a dumb shit. that's all i'm saying. an 18 year old...do they really have a grasp on anything? that's why i say stand up for yourself. i believe in gay marriage. i believe in basically every legislation passed that stands up for gays. i think youre a ****** yourself, if youre so ignorant that you honestly believe that gays choose to be gay. having said that, i think that kid was an idiot, and he doesnt deserve any media attention. i dont pity him or his family at all. he did a great disfavor to his family, doing what he did.

It's great that you believe in gay marriage, but it's clear to me you don't have an understanding of the hardships faced by members of the gay community in this society. If all things were equal, you'd have a point. But they're not. He wasn't targeted because he was having sex. He was specifically targeted for humiliation because he was gay.

Again, if suicide in the gay community was just as common as any other group, you could make the claim that he should just suck it up and deal with life's hardships just as everyone else does. But the fact is that suicide occurs MUCH more often in the gay community BECAUSE of the additional hardships from society. In other words: he's not dealing with the same crap as you. So while you can suck it up, it was much harder for him.

I agree that suicide is not an answer, but I think you're overlooking a blatant issue here.

 

[rdean]

Homosexuals are both mentally and emotionally defective.

If they commit suicide it is their own fault for choosing a perverted lifestyle.

Sunni, hmmm, is that like "al Qaeda" Sunni?

 

[Sunni Man]

Sunni, hmmm, is that like "al Qaeda" Sunni?

Nope

 

[chanel]

What is a Bully? Definitions for these kinds of terms change all the time. I found that there's usually a political agenda behind these types of labels. Who knows what a Bully is anymore? One thing is for sure,the Government can't wait to get involved with this one. Just like with the trumped up "Sexting" hysteria. Now the Government wants to monitor your texts and i'm sure Congress will get involved with that one at some point.

The Media and Politicians get together on this kind of stuff to create mass fear & hysteria. After the mass fear & hysteria has been established,the next move is to get Congress to make some big Dog & Pony Show out of these issues and pass more Laws. These laws will of course only take more of the Citizens' Freedoms & Liberties away. First they have to establish the fear & hysteria though. Right now the flavor of the week is "Bully" hysteria. The Politicians will jump all over this one immediately. People in this country just need to learn how to ignore all the fear & hysteria the Media & Politicians create. Each new law they pass,is one less right you have. People need to start understanding this.

NJ just did.

The bill passed the assembly 71-1 with five abstentions and 30-0 in the senate. The bill now makes it way to Gov. Chris Christie, who has not said whether he will sign it.

According to Garden State Equality, which advocated for the bill, the Anti-Bullying Bill of Rights protects all students bullied for any reason. The legislation maintains the language of New Jersey's existing antibullying law, enacted in 2002, which enumerates protection of students based on their actual or perceived race, color, religion, ancestry, national origin, disability, gender, sexual orientation, gender identity or expression, and has clear language protecting students bullied for any other reason.

Among its many far-reaching provisions, Garden State Equality reports that the bill is the first in the country to set firm deadlines for bullying incidents to be reported, investigated, and resolved. It also creates an antibullying team at each school led by a specialist, and grades every school on its antibullying efforts and requires that the school post the grade on its website.

The bill passed almost unanimously with no money and no thoughts about practicality. Feel good legislation.

I had an interesting conversation with my VP last night about a chick fight he broke up yesterday. Two girls shared their sexcapades with one boy at school with all the TMI. He wrote it all down and will share all the intimate details with their parents today.

I told him "that's why you make the big bucks". I don't allow those types of conversations in my room. But it looks like teachers will have to get involved in these situations, because they do escalate and now will they will be held accountable for everything they hear - even if it's gossip. Especially if it's gossip in fact, because that's how most bullying starts.

Should teachers get involved in students' sex lives? Where the hell do we draw the line?

 

[mudwhistle]

Homosexuals are both mentally and emotionally defective.

If they commit suicide it is their own fault for choosing a perverted lifestyle.

You obviously know nothing about gays or their "lifestyle" if you think that they "chose" to be gay.

I figured you were an expert on this subject. Well....at least you think you are.

 

[Samson]

.....But it looks like teachers will have to get involved in these situations, because they do escalate and now will they will be held accountable for everything they hear - even if it's gossip. Especially if it's gossip in fact, because that's how most bullying starts.

Should teachers get involved in students' sex lives? Where the hell do we draw the line?

How would teachers, "be held accountable for everything they hear?"

 

[editec]

The vast majority of people are social cowards.

And kids are highly atuned to wanting to fit in, and one of the ways they do that is by selecting a scapegoat to COLLECTIVELY torture

If you happen to be one of those people who isn't a coward and who comes to the aid of those social targets, god help you.

In the unlikely case that you help that person, do not EVER expect them to come to your aid in similar circumstances.

Why? I'll eplain it again...

The vast majority of people are social cowards.

 

[Seawytch]

Spiders, snakes, dog shit, and homosexuals. Sure, I can see where you would lump all of those under one heading, sure.

You are correct.

I shouldn't have lumped them all together.

Spiders, snakes, and dog manure, all have an ecological function and benefit humanity.

Whereas, homos are a detriment to society and do nothing but spread infections and disease.

Do you have doubts about your own sexuality, or are you just spouting off to get a reaction from the other members of this forum?

Of course he is. I've been reading his posts for a few months now and have come to the conclusion that he is from Landover Baptist Church.

 

[Sunni Man]

You are correct.

I shouldn't have lumped them all together.

Spiders, snakes, and dog manure, all have an ecological function and benefit humanity.

Whereas, homos are a detriment to society and do nothing but spread infections and disease.

Do you have doubts about your own sexuality, or are you just spouting off to get a reaction from the other members of this forum?

Of course he is. I've been reading his posts for a few months now and have come to the conclusion that he is from Landover Baptist Church.

Nope.

Never heard of it.

I don't attend any church.