Let’s be clear about something. Ending or overly restricting legal abortion will not end abortion and may not even significantly reduce the number of abortions. Rather, it will force the practice back under ground to be performed by the back ally butchers who will endanger women’s health and even their lives, and escape any restrictions on late term abortions which may well increase in numbers
I think a good starting point is for everyone to acknowledge:
1. Abortion end a human life.
2. It is wrong to end a human life.
As to your point that changing the law won't end it, you are probably right, but I do believe it would reduce it. It would probably force people behave more responsibly. Raising standards and holding people accountable usually does change behaviors.
No, a good ‘starting point’ is for everyone to acknowledge the fact that prior to birth, an embryo/fetus is not a ‘person,’ and not entitled to Constitutional protections:
‘After analyzing the usage of "person" in the Constitution, the Court concluded that that word "has application only postnatally." Id., at 157. Commenting on the contingent property interests of the unborn that are generally represented by guardians ad litem, the Court noted: "Perfection of the interests involved, again, has generally been contingent upon live birth. In short, the unborn have never been recognized in the law as persons in the whole sense." Id., at 162. Accordingly, an abortion is not "the termination of life entitled to Fourteenth Amendment protection." Id., at 159. From this holding, there was no dissent, see id., at 173; indeed, no member of the Court has ever questioned this fundamental proposition. Thus, as a matter of federal constitutional law, a developing organism that is not yet a "person" does not have what is sometimes described as a "right to life." [n.2] This has been and, by the Court's holding today, remains a fundamental premise of our constitutional law governing reproductive autonomy.’
Planned Parenthood of Southeastern Pa. v. Casey, 505 U.S. 833 (1992)
This is confirmation of the fact that – as indeed a fact of law – abortion is not ‘murder,’ it is not the unlawful taking of a human life, where to refer to abortion as ‘murder’ is ignorant demagoguery.
Abortion may be perceived as the ending of a human life in the context of subjective religious or personal belief, and ‘wrong’ in the context of subjective religious or personal belief, but to seek to make the practice ‘illegal’ through force of law is un-Constitutional, a violation of the right to privacy.