A Study of Teen Female Sexualization on Primetime TV

[thereisnospoon]

So its my fault these assholes could not keep their ******* mouths shut?

Jesus you people just LOVE to be part of the problem huh?

Yes. sometimes it is YOUR fault.
People carry themselves a certain way attract negative attention because they project negativity.
Based on your posts, you have much poison within you. I have never seen such anger spurred on by a thread which really has nothing to do with you.
You got yourself all worked up based on your claimed experiences.
I am seeing a person(you)who is not well liked and does not like them self.

 

[Zoom-boing]

Well, I popped back in here to see if TM even bothered to answer my question. But, typically, all she did was insult as my point sailed over her head. Good to see others giving her a pounding . . . it's well deserved.

TM, why is it that because I handle the situation differently then you, you automatically think you're right and I'm wrong?

btw, ain't no one giving you a second look-see; thereisnospoon has hit the nail on the head. Oh, and you're a moron.

 

[thereisnospoon]

See what women feel and think mean nothing.

To you idiots the only important thing is ******* and reproduction.


I have NEVER pursued this type of treatment in any way.


I have gotten it anyway.


This isnt about me you fools go look at the OP.

This is how 14 year old girls are treated on the street.

Like they are hookers

I suppose you think it is quite all right for a parent to allow their child to dress inappropriately. Either too revealing or too mature for her age. Society must put up with that, correct?
I see girls in their early teens with bare midriff, short skirts, short shorts, body piercings, tattoos, heavy makeup. They look like hose bag sluts. One would think they are 18 - 21 years old, No instead they are in the eighth grade.
You excuse such nonsense and blame the male gender for all of your problems. I think you have penis envy.

 

[thereisnospoon]

Lawmakers probe street harassment of NYC women - U.S. news - Life - msnbc.com

These women are "bothered" "feel" harassed, think they are being followed( I like that one)."Hello police, I think these men whp are whistling at me are now walking off their contruction site and following me....Please stop them. In fact there are two of them in my apartment right now." One says she can't go to her gym in the mornings because she has to walk by a construction site.....Take a fuckin cab!!!!
WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH....
Look sweetie pie, there is no law that says we have the right to not be "bothered"..
If you want to live in a vacuum, don't go out.
When people stop being people we have robots.
If you don't like what someone says, ignore it and move on.
DO you really think you stand a snowball's chance of getting some kind of thought/speech police to prevent you from being "bothered"...
Harassment free zones...Are you ******* kidding me?!!!!.Ok, so you're in one of these so-called harassment free zones and you "feel" harassed. By the time you call a cop you are out of the zone and the alleged harasser is long gone. Just who do you think is going to enforce such a ridiculous idea?
Jesus H Christ. Grow a thicker skin.

 

[thereisnospoon]

The problem today jb (from my perspective) is that girls are being sexualized younger, while at the same time, we've raised the age of adulthood to 27. They are more mature physically but far less mature emotionally than when we were kids. I guess the same could be said for boys too. Just my two cents.

I agree. The average high school senior these days behaves like the average 12 year old of 30 years ago.
Kids are far more likely to be sheltered by their parents. Kids are coddled. They are led to believe they are right all the time and are incapable of dealing with grown-up disappointments. In fact the typical 18 year old cannot deal with disappointment at all. they are mommy and daddied to death. Their parents try to shield them from all things not positive.
These things have greatly reduced the level of mental maturity of those under the age of 25.

 

[thereisnospoon]

Interesting Shadow. I get really sad when I see 9 year olds with "Juicy" written across their shorts and sexually provocative t - shirts. Our public school went with a uniform several years ago because parents could no longer be trusted to dress their kids appropriately. What kind of parent allows their daughter to wear "porn star" t-shirts? They are very popular BTW.

I remember taking my kids shopping at the mall when they were 6/7 looking for shorts...Most of the shorts in the stores for kids their age rode up their ass (a lot of the skorts as well...hasn't really gotten much better now that they are older either). Ended up buying Jeans and cutting them off instead. Not sure why the designers want to dress little kids as hoochies...but some of them seem to.

The schools in our district don't have a dress code. They probably should though. I agree...some of the kids do come to school dressed inappropriately (both boys and girls).

our school district prohibits sports team jerseys, hats, short shorts, bare midriff, body piercings, mini skirts, untucked shirts( on boys) pants worn below the waist, and a few other things I cannot recall.
It is a shame the school board had to play mommy and daddy. But far too many parents were allowing their kids , especially girls, to come to school dressed inappropriately. Some parents and lots of kids protested saying it was not the school's business to tell them how to dress. Oh contrare....It is most certainly their business.
Think of it this way, school is a preparation for adulthood and dealing with the real world. No employer save a video game store would allow such crappy dress.

 

[AVG-JOE]

Of course the parents are at fault for buying the inappropriate clothing. But...the designers and entertainment industry do make it trendy... and the kids all want to wear the things that are in style with their peers. I fought this battle many times with my girls...over too short shorts,skin tight skinny jeans and halter tops. The same kind of things they see the actors,singers,models wearing on TV and in print.

Creating 'want' is my job, ma'm. I'm both versed and naturally gifted in human psychology and I set goals.

I am An American Salesman, the championship is my primary goal and the market place is my gridiron.

You want them to want the ones you make the most money on? Yeah, sure. That can be done.

You bring the pig and I'll get the lipstick.

Nothing wrong with creating "want". Some folks when working and spending their own money can buy all the "want" they...well...want.

In this case...when it comes to the kidlets spending mom's money...they've got to reign it in. No hoochie shorts allowed.

Absolutely. Nothing wrong with informing folks about your product, as long as there is regulation that pushes for more competition if some sort of rules MUST apply.

 

[AVG-JOE]

When men are together and see a pretty woman they act like ******* assholes.

I don't understand that... when this average Joe sees a pretty woman the LAST thing on my mind is ******* assholes. I'm lookin' for trim so the charm gets turned on and I start being nice.

If you believe what you said honey, you need new guy friends.

 

[JBeukema]

It works fine.

If you want to be flattered by shit that is designed to demean you then that is your problem

She chooses to take it as a compliment from someone who's beneath her.

You choose to be a victim.

She chooses to coopperate with assholes and I choose not to.

Listen to your stupid self telling me I should LIKE being screamed at in public about my girl parts.


Its like telling a rape victim to just lie back and enjoy the *******.

 

[JBeukema]

Why not try to act like a civilized human being and quit making your ******* inability to control you lower brain obvious to the person on the street you are ogliing.


What many of you men dont realize is the women (yes even the little girls) are aware of what you are doing because you make asses out of yourself doing it.

Really? So am I to understand that any man that looks is a neanderthal?

And every woman who wears a shirt with cleavage or tight pants or shorts is a whore.

 

[JBeukema]

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[JBeukema]

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[jillian]

It works fine.

If you want to be flattered by shit that is designed to demean you then that is your problem

perhaps you're not on the same page as ZB. I don't think she's referring to being demeaned or being made uncomfortable. i think she's referring to someone thinking a woman is attractive. That doesn't mean walking around with your boobs hanging out and a skirt that lets people know what color underwear you have on.

but there's nothing wrong with healthy appreciation on either side.

 

[JBeukema]

TM is a lesbian who never looks at a man's butt...

 

[Truthmatters]

was anything I said about looking?


Why the **** do you people have to lie about what is said.

When a woman is walking alone in public and a group of men start yelling at her about the size of her tits and the hotness of her ass and what they would do with said body parts there is an element of threat involved.

I challenge you to find it harmless while watching it happen to your 14 year old daughter.

So much concern for the way girls are protrayed on TV and NO ******* concern about how people treat each other in real life??


I wish every one of you would experience what I'm talking about personally then you may have a shred of decency.

 

[José]

The fact that some cat-calls\pick up lines are rude/obscene does not mean all or even most of them are.

 

[Truthmatters]

who said they were?


What you are all refusing to accept is that screaming a someone in public because you want to wear your sexual desires as a crown is ******* stupid and rude.

When five men scream at a 14 year old girl about her body parts it is MORE wrong than some stupid show having a teen act too adult.

YET here we are in this thread with people telling me there is something wrong with me because I dont like it to happen to me.


They suggest I am a flawed person because I dont like some guy with a tiny penis he has to make up for screams at me about my tits in public.

Im somehow sick because I want to be left alone by strangers and not become the object of their **** rating system.

This is the fucked up country we live in.

NO responsibility requested from the people invading my life so they can degrade me.

All the responsibility laid on me to LIKE it.

The people here are happy to condem some TV producer for accepting what they find JUST FINE from individuals on the street.


And in the end they claim its all MY fault for it happening.

You people are fucked up

 

[Samson]

It works fine.

If you want to be flattered by shit that is designed to demean you then that is your problem

perhaps you're not on the same page as ZB.

Well, there's an understatement for the year.

TM isn't on the same PLANET as ZB.

 

[Samson]

who said they were?


What you are all refusing to accept is that screaming a someone in public because you want to wear your sexual desires as a crown is ******* stupid and rude.

When five men scream at a 14 year old girl about her body parts it is MORE wrong than some stupid show having a teen act too adult.

YET here we are in this thread with people telling me there is something wrong with me because I dont like it to happen to me.


They suggest I am a flawed person because I dont like some guy with a tiny penis he has to make up for screams at me about my tits in public.

Im somehow sick because I want to be left alone by strangers and not become the object of their **** rating system.

This is the fucked up country we live in.

NO responsibility requested from the people invading my life so they can degrade me.

All the responsibility laid on me to LIKE it.

The people here are happy to condem some TV producer for accepting what they find JUST FINE from individuals on the street.


And in the end they claim its all MY fault for it happening.

You people are fucked up

Isn't it very eary in the week for a Meltdown?

You need to wear a Burka, TM. Clearly the sight of your body is simply too much for the inbread moron cousins you're hangin' with.

 

[Truthmatters]

What part of strangers on the street do you not understand?