Understanding women

[shintao]

Who knew, your own little beaver trap.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nzkiTpA6Lrg

I don't recall any misunderstandings, because I tried to be honest and up front about what I wanted out of a short time relationship with no strings attached. And if a women didn't want that, but still wanted company, I knew at the club, and kept the evening in that light. Why force people into uncomfortable circumstances?

Oh, and I also entertained on stage, so many girls are attracted to that, the rare syndrome.

That is you? When?

Early 90's. Here is me about 4 years ago.

 

[syrenn]

What ever happened to just being yourself? Honesty? This is all about you, and you getting laid. This isn't about women at all. I have met con artists like you.

Well, it is actually about "rare" and what women want. Sorry if that offends you, just follow your nose down to the end of your left hand and see if there isn't truth in what I say.

What does that supposedly have to do with you being a user?

The difference is that ekrem is asking about understanding women for relationship purposes. shintao is saying he "understands" what woman want to get sex.

 

[shintao]

What ever happened to just being yourself? Honesty? This is all about you, and you getting laid. This isn't about women at all. I have met con artists like you.

Well, it is actually about "rare" and what women want. Sorry if that offends you, just follow your nose down to the end of your left hand and see if there isn't truth in what I say.

What does that supposedly have to do with you being a user?

Who says I am a user? LMAO!!

USER>>>>>>

 

[Kat]

I don't recall any misunderstandings, because I tried to be honest and up front about what I wanted out of a short time relationship with no strings attached. And if a women didn't want that, but still wanted company, I knew at the club, and kept the evening in that light. Why force people into uncomfortable circumstances?

Oh, and I also entertained on stage, so many girls are attracted to that, the rare syndrome.

That is you? When?

Early 90's. Here is me about 4 years ago.

Okay, cool, thanks. So did you ever marry?

 

[Kat]

Well, it is actually about "rare" and what women want. Sorry if that offends you, just follow your nose down to the end of your left hand and see if there isn't truth in what I say.

What does that supposedly have to do with you being a user?

Who says I am a user? LMAO!!

Why you did, sugah.

 

[Kat]

Well, it is actually about "rare" and what women want. Sorry if that offends you, just follow your nose down to the end of your left hand and see if there isn't truth in what I say.

What does that supposedly have to do with you being a user?

The difference is that ekrem is asking about understanding women for relationship purposes. shintao is saying he "understands" what woman want to get sex.

Sure seems that way, huh?

 

[shintao]

Well, it is actually about "rare" and what women want. Sorry if that offends you, just follow your nose down to the end of your left hand and see if there isn't truth in what I say.

What does that supposedly have to do with you being a user?

The difference is that ekrem is asking about understanding women for relationship purposes. shintao is saying he "understands" what woman want to get sex.

Hmmm, now he knows the difference. So you think this is about sex??? LOL!

"And I think the most important thing is dating women who share the same kind of sports that you do. You have to go where they are, and usually they are not in the bar, but at the ski lodge or down at the Marina, or car races, football, whatever. Those are the ones you want for a life mate."

 

[shintao]

That is you? When?

Early 90's. Here is me about 4 years ago.

Okay, cool, thanks. So did you ever marry?

Yeah, a couple of times. I prefer ongoing relationships. How about you?

 

[Kat]

Early 90's. Here is me about 4 years ago.

Okay, cool, thanks. So did you ever marry?

Yeah, a couple of times. I prefer ongoing relationships. How about you?

Yup. We both love football.

 

[syrenn]

What does that supposedly have to do with you being a user?

The difference is that ekrem is asking about understanding women for relationship purposes. shintao is saying he "understands" what woman want to get sex.

Hmmm, now he knows the difference. So you think this is about sex??? LOL!

"And I think the most important thing is dating women who share the same kind of sports that you do. You have to go where they are, and usually they are not in the bar, but at the ski lodge or down at the Marina, or car races, football, whatever. Those are the ones you want for a life mate."

No, ekrem doesn't know anything about women as far as i am concerned. I dont think he has the experience.

You however do. And yes, what you say you did was aimed for sex. I would not look at what you did as "rare." Stanley and his beaver trap is more to the truth of it. You had it all.

 

[shintao]

The difference is that ekrem is asking about understanding women for relationship purposes. shintao is saying he "understands" what woman want to get sex.

Hmmm, now he knows the difference. So you think this is about sex??? LOL!

"And I think the most important thing is dating women who share the same kind of sports that you do. You have to go where they are, and usually they are not in the bar, but at the ski lodge or down at the Marina, or car races, football, whatever. Those are the ones you want for a life mate."

No, ekrem doesn't know anything about women as far as i am concerned. I dont think he has the experience.

You however do. And yes, what you say you did was aimed for sex. I would not look at what you did as "rare." Stanley and his beaver trap is more to the truth of it. You had it all.

I mentioned I am somewhat shy, and for the most part wouldn't be involved in a lot of the activities I saw there with Stanley's pad. No dolls, whips or chains, etc. I may not be as exciting sexually as some, I would say I am a man with a slow hand, no rush, and 3 hours of love making is better than an elevator ride to me. I once oiled down my water-bed mattress and had a great love session between the bed and the floor. Ruined my hardwood floors before it was all over. LMAO!!

 

[casper4020322]

You need to stop being so serious and just have fun!! Not every woman is going to be a match so you just got to keep on looking. You will know when you meet the right one. But in the meantime, make sure you protect yourself. Don't forget that whoever you kiss has kissed someone who has kissed someone else, who has kissed another person and so on...Wear a jacket if you intend on having sex b/c the same rule applies. Whoever had sex with that woman, had sex with another person and that person had sex with....just wanted you to know.

 

[Kat]

You need to stop being so serious and just have fun!! Not every woman is going to be a match so you just got to keep on looking. You will know when you meet the right one. But in the meantime, make sure you protect yourself. Don't forget that whoever you kiss has kissed someone who has kissed someone else, who has kissed another person and so on...Wear a jacket if you intend on having sex b/c the same rule applies. Whoever had sex with that woman, had sex with another person and that person had sex with....just wanted you to know.

Yuck. That had crossed my mind too.

Another topic - why do you have so many numbers after your name?

 

[Bones]

If men and women could just relate to each other without the manipulation and mind games, the world would be a better place.

Let instinct takeover and forget about the bogus morality that was shoved into your head as a child.

 

[Mr. Sauerkraut]

If men and women could just relate to each other without the manipulation and mind games, the world would be a better place.

Let instinct takeover and forget about the bogus morality that was shoved into your head as a child.

i´m in the comfortable position that my wife doesn´t do so.
or does she only let me believe that?
well....hmmm.....

time for a beer.

 

[007]

You need to stop being so serious and just have fun!! Not every woman is going to be a match so you just got to keep on looking. You will know when you meet the right one. But in the meantime, make sure you protect yourself. Don't forget that whoever you kiss has kissed someone who has kissed someone else, who has kissed another person and so on...Wear a jacket if you intend on having sex b/c the same rule applies. Whoever had sex with that woman, had sex with another person and that person had sex with....just wanted you to know.

Yuck. That had crossed my mind too.

Another topic - why do you have so many numbers after your name?

His/her zip code followed by their age.

(Just guessing.)

 

[Colin]

Young King Arthur was ambushed and imprisoned by the monarch of neighbouring kingdom. The monarch could have killed him, but was moved by Arthur's youthful happiness. So he offered him freedom, as long as he could answer a very difficult question. Arthur would have a year to figure out the answer; if, after a year, he still had no answer, he would be killed.

The question was: What do women really want?

Such a question would perplex even the most knowledgeable man, and, to young Arthur, it seemed an impossible query. Well, since it was better than death, he accepted the monarch's proposition to have an answer by year's end.
He returned to his kingdom and began to poll everybody: the princess, the prostitutes, the priests, the wise men, the court jester. In all, he spoke with everyone but no one could give him a satisfactory answer.

What most people did say, was that the Witch would know the answer. The price would be high, since the witch was famous throughout the kingdom for the exorbitant prices she charged.

The last day of the year arrived and Arthur had no alternative but to talk to the witch. She agreed to answer his question, but he'd have to accept her price first: The old witch wanted to marry Gawain, the most noble of the Knights of the Round Table and Arthur's closest friend!

Young Arthur was horrified: she was hunchbacked and awfully hideous, had only one tooth, smelled like sewage water, often made obscene noises...

He had never run across such a repugnant creature. He refused to force his friend to marry her and have to endure such a burden. Gawain, upon learning of the proposal, spoke with Arthur. He told him that nothing was too big of a sacrifice compared to Arthur's life and the preservation of the Round Table.

Hence, their wedding was proclaimed, and the witch answered Arthur's question: What a woman really wants is to be able to be in charge of her own life. Everyone instantly knew that the witch had uttered a great truth and that Arthur's life would be spared.

And so it went. The neighbouring monarch spared Arthur's life and granted him total freedom. What a wedding Gawain and the witch had! Arthur was torn between relief and anguish. Gawain was proper as always, gentle and courteous. The old witch put her worst manners on display. She ate with her hands, belched and farted, and made everyone uncomfortable.

The wedding night approached: Gawain, steeling himself for a horrific night, entered the bedroom. What a sight awaited! The most beautiful woman he'd ever seen lay before him! Gawain was astounded and asked what had happened. The beauty replied that since he had been so kind to her (when she'd been a witch), half the time she would be her horrible, deformed self, and the other half, she would be her beautiful maiden self.

Which would he want her to be during the day and which during the night?

What a cruel question? Gawain began to think of his predicament: During the day a beautiful woman to show off to his friend, but at night, in the privacy of his home, an old spooky witch?

Or would he prefer having by day a hideous witch, but by night a beautiful woman to enjoy many intimate moments?

What would you do?

What Gawain chose follows below, but don't read until you've made your own choice.















Noble Gawain replied that he would let her choose for herself. Upon hearing this, she announced that she would be beautiful all the time, because he had respected her and had let her be in charge of her own life.

What is the moral of this story?

The moral is that it doesn't matter if your woman is pretty or ugly, smart or dumb, underneath it all, she's still a damn witch.

 

[Kat]

Young King Arthur was ambushed and imprisoned by the monarch of neighbouring kingdom. The monarch could have killed him, but was moved by Arthur's youthful happiness. So he offered him freedom, as long as he could answer a very difficult question. Arthur would have a year to figure out the answer; if, after a year, he still had no answer, he would be killed.

The question was: What do women really want?

Such a question would perplex even the most knowledgeable man, and, to young Arthur, it seemed an impossible query. Well, since it was better than death, he accepted the monarch's proposition to have an answer by year's end.
He returned to his kingdom and began to poll everybody: the princess, the prostitutes, the priests, the wise men, the court jester. In all, he spoke with everyone but no one could give him a satisfactory answer.

What most people did say, was that the Witch would know the answer. The price would be high, since the witch was famous throughout the kingdom for the exorbitant prices she charged.

The last day of the year arrived and Arthur had no alternative but to talk to the witch. She agreed to answer his question, but he'd have to accept her price first: The old witch wanted to marry Gawain, the most noble of the Knights of the Round Table and Arthur's closest friend!

Young Arthur was horrified: she was hunchbacked and awfully hideous, had only one tooth, smelled like sewage water, often made obscene noises...

He had never run across such a repugnant creature. He refused to force his friend to marry her and have to endure such a burden. Gawain, upon learning of the proposal, spoke with Arthur. He told him that nothing was too big of a sacrifice compared to Arthur's life and the preservation of the Round Table.

Hence, their wedding was proclaimed, and the witch answered Arthur's question: What a woman really wants is to be able to be in charge of her own life. Everyone instantly knew that the witch had uttered a great truth and that Arthur's life would be spared.

And so it went. The neighbouring monarch spared Arthur's life and granted him total freedom. What a wedding Gawain and the witch had! Arthur was torn between relief and anguish. Gawain was proper as always, gentle and courteous. The old witch put her worst manners on display. She ate with her hands, belched and farted, and made everyone uncomfortable.

The wedding night approached: Gawain, steeling himself for a horrific night, entered the bedroom. What a sight awaited! The most beautiful woman he'd ever seen lay before him! Gawain was astounded and asked what had happened. The beauty replied that since he had been so kind to her (when she'd been a witch), half the time she would be her horrible, deformed self, and the other half, she would be her beautiful maiden self.

Which would he want her to be during the day and which during the night?

What a cruel question? Gawain began to think of his predicament: During the day a beautiful woman to show off to his friend, but at night, in the privacy of his home, an old spooky witch?

Or would he prefer having by day a hideous witch, but by night a beautiful woman to enjoy many intimate moments?

What would you do?

What Gawain chose follows below, but don't read until you've made your own choice.















Noble Gawain replied that he would let her choose for herself. Upon hearing this, she announced that she would be beautiful all the time, because he had respected her and had let her be in charge of her own life.

What is the moral of this story?

The moral is that it doesn't matter if your woman is pretty or ugly, smart or dumb, underneath it all, she's still a damn witch.

That was great.

 

[dilloduck]

Young King Arthur was ambushed and imprisoned by the monarch of neighbouring kingdom. The monarch could have killed him, but was moved by Arthur's youthful happiness. So he offered him freedom, as long as he could answer a very difficult question. Arthur would have a year to figure out the answer; if, after a year, he still had no answer, he would be killed.

The question was: What do women really want?

Such a question would perplex even the most knowledgeable man, and, to young Arthur, it seemed an impossible query. Well, since it was better than death, he accepted the monarch's proposition to have an answer by year's end.
He returned to his kingdom and began to poll everybody: the princess, the prostitutes, the priests, the wise men, the court jester. In all, he spoke with everyone but no one could give him a satisfactory answer.

What most people did say, was that the Witch would know the answer. The price would be high, since the witch was famous throughout the kingdom for the exorbitant prices she charged.

The last day of the year arrived and Arthur had no alternative but to talk to the witch. She agreed to answer his question, but he'd have to accept her price first: The old witch wanted to marry Gawain, the most noble of the Knights of the Round Table and Arthur's closest friend!

Young Arthur was horrified: she was hunchbacked and awfully hideous, had only one tooth, smelled like sewage water, often made obscene noises...

He had never run across such a repugnant creature. He refused to force his friend to marry her and have to endure such a burden. Gawain, upon learning of the proposal, spoke with Arthur. He told him that nothing was too big of a sacrifice compared to Arthur's life and the preservation of the Round Table.

Hence, their wedding was proclaimed, and the witch answered Arthur's question: What a woman really wants is to be able to be in charge of her own life. Everyone instantly knew that the witch had uttered a great truth and that Arthur's life would be spared.

And so it went. The neighbouring monarch spared Arthur's life and granted him total freedom. What a wedding Gawain and the witch had! Arthur was torn between relief and anguish. Gawain was proper as always, gentle and courteous. The old witch put her worst manners on display. She ate with her hands, belched and farted, and made everyone uncomfortable.

The wedding night approached: Gawain, steeling himself for a horrific night, entered the bedroom. What a sight awaited! The most beautiful woman he'd ever seen lay before him! Gawain was astounded and asked what had happened. The beauty replied that since he had been so kind to her (when she'd been a witch), half the time she would be her horrible, deformed self, and the other half, she would be her beautiful maiden self.

Which would he want her to be during the day and which during the night?

What a cruel question? Gawain began to think of his predicament: During the day a beautiful woman to show off to his friend, but at night, in the privacy of his home, an old spooky witch?

Or would he prefer having by day a hideous witch, but by night a beautiful woman to enjoy many intimate moments?

What would you do?

What Gawain chose follows below, but don't read until you've made your own choice.















Noble Gawain replied that he would let her choose for herself. Upon hearing this, she announced that she would be beautiful all the time, because he had respected her and had let her be in charge of her own life.

What is the moral of this story?

The moral is that it doesn't matter if your woman is pretty or ugly, smart or dumb, underneath it all, she's still a damn witch.

As if anyone ever had any success at changing a woman to like anything else

 

[shintao]

If men and women could just relate to each other without the manipulation and mind games, the world would be a better place.

Let instinct takeover and forget about the bogus morality that was shoved into your head as a child.

I think the last 20 years have shown us that women can come out of the moral shell. I think it is due to the feminist movement, even if we don't want to admit it and be associated to it.

It was mentioned I was a user, but if the girls will recall, there was a time in the late 80's when they did the diddley to be part of the drug culture. If you had a score, you had sex. And I was used as well, because I looked to women for the companionship, and some of them looked for a quicky, got their sex and left instead of spending the night. The business women were typically this way. In & out and they were ready to leave. So who really uses who?

Then again, why do we think in terms of playing the victor and putting women into submission? They want sex as well, this isn't some one side deal when you really get down to it. Both come away satisfied to some point or another. There are male prostitutes, and I have been called a he-whore before because I enjoy sex and being sensual with women who seem to appreciate not being malled and raked over. Is that my crime in society?

So yeah, we have a ways to go in making everyone comfortable with sex, and kicking moral's arse.