Thoughts. Porn, good, bad or indifferent?

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  1. RodISHI
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    I don't personally think it is a good thing from what I have seen over the years.

    Yet everyone is able to come to their own conclusions on the subject. I would not want to tell anyone what they could or they could not do. I do think though people should be aware of the situations and heartache associated with the choices that they make.

    Growing up in Southern California I knew people that were in that industry. I mention one instance in another post on USMB. The one I recall that really struck my senses was a girl my brother had a crush on growing up.

    We walked to school when we live at the foothills for awhile and there was a group of the older kids that would sniff glue on the way to school. The girl my brother had the crush on was one of those who would get high before getting to the school. She was very pretty. She had blonde hair and blue eyes. One of the guys that hung out with her in the morning was a defender one day for me when some of the local crowd started hooting at me when I did not join them. I was sure grateful for that too. To me the stuff smelled awful even being on the street thirty feet away plus I tried to stay away from anything my brother did. My brother was older than I and of course I was the easiest thing for him to take out his fustrations on. That day he was not there but I sure did not want to go to the side of the road and sniff glue with those guys either. Thankfully we did not live very long near that neighborhood. I would not consider the girl my brother had a crush on again for several years.

    I left home, got married and had children. The marraige was not going all that hot and in trying to make the whole affair work even when it was nearly over. I tried to be the obedient wife my husband wanted (I've learned since what a control freak is. He also admitted and apoligized years later for being the sick puppy he was). I agreed to go with him to a movie one evening. He neglected to tell me he would be taking me to the porn theatre with him. I was quiet about the whole ordeal as I followed him into the theatre. As much as I wanted to run I didn't and he promised if I did not like it we would leave.

    Once inside the theatre I felt sick from the smell. I quashed the urge to puke back and walk with what was supposed to be a loving spouse to a seat and sat down. As I sat there I could see everything around me. Trying not to panick so very hard as I sat there and looked at the whole place and tried really hard ot to look at the fellow sitting a few seats down from us. Then I saw her. That poor girl that was once so beautiful my brother thought he was in love with. She was in a corner of the theatre and men were standing around her. Her face was covered in slime and she looked as if she was some where in space but surely not there. I can still recall the memory and that was over thirty years ago. I learned she was in some of the porn films and she passed with little fan fare from the thoughts of people and this world. I doubt those many that abused her even consider her or the misery she lived in this world for the pleasure of others.
     
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    Indifferent. The films are pretty much deadly dull, and to see one is really to see them all. Fine if you like that kid of thing, but there have to be better ways to spend your time and money.

    That said, some of the stuff they make for "niche" audiences is pretty fucking gross. If that was banned it wouldn't bother me, but one person's gross is another person's freedom of expression, so it would probably be the thin end of the wedge.
     
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    boring and stupid..but whatever floats yer boat
     
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    If you want to waste money on it ... have fun ... now, tomorrow I am buying a new keyboard I think with my money ...
     
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    This .... just ... fits:

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    So Kitten is into bestiality or a furry (or maybe that's the same thing).

    I don't think I abuse the stuff. I prefer games more anyway.

    I'm sorry but there's just something so utterly satisfying about ramming another car into a wall at 120 mph, or blowing up something huge.
     
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    I bet 90% of the men on here have some sort of porn hidden away somewhere, even my dad has one on beta hidden away.
    As for porn, it all depends for me. It can be amusing at times.
     
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    You mean clown porn?
     
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    I have watched some pretty funny porno's. Watched one where they were hunting women like deer but with paint balls I think. The one that is a spoof on the Blair Witch was pretty entertaining.
     
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    Strange, I thought all porn was clown porn ...
     

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