Straight Men & Women: What would you do....?

[ChrisL]

I had two openly homosexual classmates in college. I very politely informed them both that if I ever thought they were hitting on me that they'd wake up in the hospital. Thankfully it never ended up being a problem.

I'm sure they were not interested in hitting on you.

 

[Jarlaxle]

I had two openly homosexual classmates in college. I very politely informed them both that if I ever thought they were hitting on me that they'd wake up in the hospital. Thankfully it never ended up being a problem.

Why would you want to hurt them?
I think if I were a guy I would get angry because, if someone saw a gay person hitting on me they might assume I was gay also - by being aggressive and retaliatory, that would (I would think) eliminate any doubt....

Because he's a psycho.

 

[danielpalos]

I am upfront and tell them I am looking for nice girls who are willing to be friends.

 

[The Professor]

I've heard men talk saying if a homosexual tried to hit on them they would punch them.
To me, that is homophobic behavior. Why would you want to hit them?

What is someone was more aggressive and kiss you or grabbed your butt?
Is hitting someone even in that circumstance warranted? If not, what would be an appropriate reaction?

I answered this somewhat in my first response- but what is the appropriate response by a woman to a guy who is hitting on her? It should be no different for a guy who is being hit on by a guy.

One of my favorites:

Man: I love your body.

Woman: Thank you. When I'm done with it you can have it.

 

[PoliticalChic]

I've heard men talk saying if a homosexual tried to hit on them they would punch them.
To me, that is homophobic behavior. Why would you want to hit them?

What is someone was more aggressive and kiss you or grabbed your butt?
Is hitting someone even in that circumstance warranted? If not, what would be an appropriate reaction?

I answered this somewhat in my first response- but what is the appropriate response by a woman to a guy who is hitting on her? It should be no different for a guy who is being hit on by a guy.

One of my favorites:

Man: I love your body.

Woman: Thank you. When I'm done with it you can have it.

And this variation: "If I told you you had a great body, would you hold it against me?"

 

[Bonzi]

Men.... they want you for your looks, but keep you for your performance....

 

[TrinityPower]

I've heard men talk saying if a homosexual tried to hit on them they would punch them.
To me, that is homophobic behavior. Why would you want to hit them?

What is someone was more aggressive and kiss you or grabbed your butt?
Is hitting someone even in that circumstance warranted? If not, what would be an appropriate reaction?

I answered this somewhat in my first response- but what is the appropriate response by a woman to a guy who is hitting on her? It should be no different for a guy who is being hit on by a guy.

One of my favorites:

Man: I love your body.

Woman: Thank you. When I'm done with it you can have it.

And this variation: "If I told you you had a great body, would you hold it against me?"

Ah...the great tune by the Bellemy Brothers lol

 

[danielpalos]

Practitioners of the philosophy of the Isle of Lesbos, are welcome to practice with me, not Only for fun but also merely for practice and gender relations.

 

[Syriusly]

Men.... they want you for your looks, but keep you for your performance....

Let us say we notice the looks first- but the performance is what keeps us interested.

 

[Bonzi]

Men.... they want you for your looks, but keep you for your performance....

Let us say we notice the looks first- but the performance is what keeps us interested.

So maybe women should be taught lessons on sex in order to keep a marriage happy and healthy?
Maybe more 18+ women should be watching porn - would the divorce rate go down?

 

[Syriusly]

Men.... they want you for your looks, but keep you for your performance....

Let us say we notice the looks first- but the performance is what keeps us interested.

So maybe women should be taught lessons on sex in order to keep a marriage happy and healthy?
Maybe more 18+ women should be watching porn - would the divorce rate go down?

LOL- porn is not 'sex'- any more than a Romantic Comedy is how real relationships work- why do you think women would benefit if they thought all men's cocks were 9 to 12 inches long, and every other woman in the world is shaved, can swallow a sword whole and has huge plastic breasts?

Hell thats like watching Mission Impossible to learn how to drive....

That being said- I think all marriages benefit if both partners know how to have sex better- and desire to have a sexual relationship with each other.

 

[Bonzi]

Men.... they want you for your looks, but keep you for your performance....

Let us say we notice the looks first- but the performance is what keeps us interested.

So maybe women should be taught lessons on sex in order to keep a marriage happy and healthy?
Maybe more 18+ women should be watching porn - would the divorce rate go down?

LOL- porn is not 'sex'- any more than a Romantic Comedy is how real relationships work.

That being said- I think all marriages benefit if both partners know how to have sex better- and desire to have a sexual relationship with each other.

... something that can be taught? what's the "secret" to good sex?
CLUE - it's not communication.

 

[Iceweasel]

It's happened to me a number of times. First one I remember was a guy approached me while I was settling in in my sleeping bag on a park bench. The conversation was getting weird when complained that there weren't many gays on the east coast. I said well I'm not! And kept my hand on my big ass flashlight just in case.

Next some old fuck at the tavern gave me a ride and invited me for a few beers. I was in the military like most younger guys there. Figured him to be a lonely vet, it was a holiday. He broke out some nuddie pictures of some gal that was on the couch I was sitting on, I thought "cool". He then got around to informing me that if he sucked my dick I'd come in a second. I beat feet outa there.

Once some sales dude was at my shop and said I was cute.

So no, not really any trouble but it was striking that fags go from zero to full speed at the drop of a hat. Maybe some guys do that to gals but it was never my style.

 

[Bonzi]

It's happened to me a number of times. First one I remember was a guy approached me while I was settling in in my sleeping bag on a park bench. The conversation was getting weird when complained that there weren't many gays on the east coast. I said well I'm not! And kept my hand on my big ass flashlight just in case.

Next some old fuck at the tavern gave me a ride and invited me for a few beers. I was in the military like most younger guys there. Figured him to be a lonely vet, it was a holiday. He broke out some nuddie pictures of some gal that was on the couch I was sitting on, I thought "cool". He then got around to informing me that if he sucked my dick I'd come in a second. I beat feet outa there.

Once some sales dude was at my shop and said I was cute.

So no, not really any trouble but it was striking that fags go from zero to full speed at the drop of a hat. Maybe some guys do that to gals but it was never my style.

Ever had girls hit on you like that?

 

[Iceweasel]

LOL- porn is not 'sex'...

Yeah, right. It's auto mechanics for people without cars.

 

[Syriusly]

Men.... they want you for your looks, but keep you for your performance....

Let us say we notice the looks first- but the performance is what keeps us interested.

So maybe women should be taught lessons on sex in order to keep a marriage happy and healthy?
Maybe more 18+ women should be watching porn - would the divorce rate go down?

LOL- porn is not 'sex'- any more than a Romantic Comedy is how real relationships work.

That being said- I think all marriages benefit if both partners know how to have sex better- and desire to have a sexual relationship with each other.

... something that can be taught? what's the "secret" to good sex?
CLUE - it's not communication.

Well as far as I am concerned 'the secret' includes wanting to have sex, a certain fearless attitude towards sex, and the desire to provide pleasure to your partner.

 

[Iceweasel]

It's happened to me a number of times. First one I remember was a guy approached me while I was settling in in my sleeping bag on a park bench. The conversation was getting weird when complained that there weren't many gays on the east coast. I said well I'm not! And kept my hand on my big ass flashlight just in case.

Next some old fuck at the tavern gave me a ride and invited me for a few beers. I was in the military like most younger guys there. Figured him to be a lonely vet, it was a holiday. He broke out some nuddie pictures of some gal that was on the couch I was sitting on, I thought "cool". He then got around to informing me that if he sucked my dick I'd come in a second. I beat feet outa there.

Once some sales dude was at my shop and said I was cute.

So no, not really any trouble but it was striking that fags go from zero to full speed at the drop of a hat. Maybe some guys do that to gals but it was never my style.

Ever had girls hit on you like that?

Hit on yes, not so blatantly. They do subtle shit like elbow you on the back "oh, excuse me". Well, except there was this Jamaican hooker but me and my buddy told them we were gay. They were not exactly high dollar gals. Didn't believe us either. Lots of guys brought crabs back to wifey so it was the smart move.

 

[Bonzi]

Men.... they want you for your looks, but keep you for your performance....

Let us say we notice the looks first- but the performance is what keeps us interested.

So maybe women should be taught lessons on sex in order to keep a marriage happy and healthy?
Maybe more 18+ women should be watching porn - would the divorce rate go down?

LOL- porn is not 'sex'- any more than a Romantic Comedy is how real relationships work.

That being said- I think all marriages benefit if both partners know how to have sex better- and desire to have a sexual relationship with each other.

... something that can be taught? what's the "secret" to good sex?
CLUE - it's not communication.

Well as far as I am concerned 'the secret' includes wanting to have sex, a certain fearless attitude towards sex, and the desire to provide pleasure to your partner.

So, you either have it or you don't............ ok...............

 

[Syriusly]

Let us say we notice the looks first- but the performance is what keeps us interested.

So maybe women should be taught lessons on sex in order to keep a marriage happy and healthy?
Maybe more 18+ women should be watching porn - would the divorce rate go down?

LOL- porn is not 'sex'- any more than a Romantic Comedy is how real relationships work.

That being said- I think all marriages benefit if both partners know how to have sex better- and desire to have a sexual relationship with each other.

... something that can be taught? what's the "secret" to good sex?
CLUE - it's not communication.

Well as far as I am concerned 'the secret' includes wanting to have sex, a certain fearless attitude towards sex, and the desire to provide pleasure to your partner.

So, you either have it or you don't............ ok...............

The desire to share pleasure can lead to a desire to learn how to do so better. Books- or a more experienced lover can both help when it comes to that. But if a person doesn't have a desire to share pleasure.....I dont' think learning techniques help much.

Hmm- to me- its like dancing. I would rather be with a woman who really wants to dance with ME- and obviously enjoys dancing with ME- than the best ballroom dancer who is just going through the motions.

 

[Bonzi]

So maybe women should be taught lessons on sex in order to keep a marriage happy and healthy?
Maybe more 18+ women should be watching porn - would the divorce rate go down?

LOL- porn is not 'sex'- any more than a Romantic Comedy is how real relationships work.

That being said- I think all marriages benefit if both partners know how to have sex better- and desire to have a sexual relationship with each other.

... something that can be taught? what's the "secret" to good sex?
CLUE - it's not communication.

Well as far as I am concerned 'the secret' includes wanting to have sex, a certain fearless attitude towards sex, and the desire to provide pleasure to your partner.

So, you either have it or you don't............ ok...............

The desire to share pleasure can lead to a desire to learn how to do so better. Books- or a more experienced lover can both help when it comes to that. But if a person doesn't have a desire to share pleasure.....I dont' think learning techniques help much.

Hmm- to me- its like dancing. I would rather be with a woman who really wants to dance with ME- and obviously enjoys dancing with ME- than the best ballroom dancer who is just going through the motions.

I would think it be nearly impossible for a selfish or self-centered person to enjoy sex at it's best then.
Would you agree?