Straight Men & Women: What would you do....?

[Agit8r]

......if a homosexual made a pass at you? asked you out, flirted with you etc.?

How do you think you would handle it? or
If it HAS happened to you, how did you handle it?

I suppose I'd be flattered, just like with an unattractive female.

 

[Bonzi]

......if a homosexual made a pass at you? asked you out, flirted with you etc.?

How do you think you would handle it? or
If it HAS happened to you, how did you handle it?

I suppose I'd be flattered, just like with an unattractive female.

I agree. I had a stripper hit on me once. I was like AWESOME!

 

[ABikerSailor]

It's happened to me a number of times. First one I remember was a guy approached me while I was settling in in my sleeping bag on a park bench. The conversation was getting weird when complained that there weren't many gays on the east coast. I said well I'm not! And kept my hand on my big ass flashlight just in case.

Next some old fuck at the tavern gave me a ride and invited me for a few beers. I was in the military like most younger guys there. Figured him to be a lonely vet, it was a holiday. He broke out some nuddie pictures of some gal that was on the couch I was sitting on, I thought "cool". He then got around to informing me that if he sucked my dick I'd come in a second. I beat feet outa there.

Once some sales dude was at my shop and said I was cute.

So no, not really any trouble but it was striking that fags go from zero to full speed at the drop of a hat. Maybe some guys do that to gals but it was never my style.

Ever had girls hit on you like that?

Actually, I have. I was working as a bartender at a place called Boondocks when this really cute blonde named Mandy (who I ended up dating for a few months) walked up to the bar and told me directly "I'm going to fuck your brains out tonight". Didn't ask for a beer, didn't say anything else.

Well............she ended up getting drunk and leaving early, so she didn't come home with me that night.

Although..............a few days later, she walks back into the bar, and I told her I still had all my brains because she was gone by the time my shift was over. She then said sorry, and that night actually tried to screw my brains out.

Being a bartender at a biker bar is AWESOME!!!

 

[Nosmo King]

A Lesbian couple opened up an ice cream parlor. They called it "Lickety Splits".

Take the pass as a compliment and be a lady or gentleman and graciously decline.

 

[Iceweasel]

A Lesbian couple opened up an ice cream parlor. They called it "Lickety Splits".

Take the pass as a compliment and be a lady or gentleman and graciously decline.

A guy hitting on a guy isn't exactly the same thing as a gal hitting on a guy. There is no propaganda available that will make me think otherwise.

 

[Nosmo King]

A Lesbian couple opened up an ice cream parlor. They called it "Lickety Splits".

Take the pass as a compliment and be a lady or gentleman and graciously decline.

A guy hitting on a guy isn't exactly the same thing as a gal hitting on a guy. There is no propaganda available that will make me think otherwise.

Since when has being a gentleman some propaganda device? You can chose to take the high ground and behave as an adult, or you could make an ass of yourself by escalating a situation that doesn't require escalation.

 

[Iceweasel]

A Lesbian couple opened up an ice cream parlor. They called it "Lickety Splits".

Take the pass as a compliment and be a lady or gentleman and graciously decline.

A guy hitting on a guy isn't exactly the same thing as a gal hitting on a guy. There is no propaganda available that will make me think otherwise.

Since when has being a gentleman some propaganda device? You can chose to take the high ground and behave as an adult, or you could make an ass of yourself by escalating a situation that doesn't require escalation.

Maybe you can't read. Go back and try again, I gave three specific personal examples. Where did I escalate anything? What I just said here, try to focus.....is that a guy hitting on a guy isn't the same thing as a gal hitting on a guy and no propaganda will ever make me think so.

 

[ChrisL]

A Lesbian couple opened up an ice cream parlor. They called it "Lickety Splits".

Take the pass as a compliment and be a lady or gentleman and graciously decline.

A guy hitting on a guy isn't exactly the same thing as a gal hitting on a guy. There is no propaganda available that will make me think otherwise.

I don't see how hitting on someone making an unwanted pass is really warranted, unless they started really harassing you or something. That is kind of an uncalled for over-the-top reaction, I think.

 

[Jarlaxle]

*facepalm*

And the "not following the conversation" award goes to...YOU!

 

[ChrisL]

*facepalm*

And the "not following the conversation" award goes to...YOU!

Who? Please use the quote function. Nobody knows who you are talking to.

 

[ChrisL]

*facepalm*

And the "not following the conversation" award goes to...YOU!

Who? Please use the quote function. Nobody knows who you are talking to.

If you are talking to me, I was just agreeing about the whole "hitting" business being over the top for something that is basically harmless. It just so happens that the poster I quoted had made the last post on the matter. I wasn't accusing him of any wrong doing. Just putting in my 2 cents.

 

[Muhammed]

A Lesbian couple opened up an ice cream parlor. They called it "Lickety Splits".

Take the pass as a compliment and be a lady or gentleman and graciously decline.

A guy hitting on a guy isn't exactly the same thing as a gal hitting on a guy. There is no propaganda available that will make me think otherwise.

I don't see how hitting on someone making an unwanted pass is really warranted, unless they started really harassing you or something. That is kind of an uncalled for over-the-top reaction, I think.

ChrisL, in some parts of the country the term "hitting on" means "making a pass".

 

[ChrisL]

A Lesbian couple opened up an ice cream parlor. They called it "Lickety Splits".

Take the pass as a compliment and be a lady or gentleman and graciously decline.

A guy hitting on a guy isn't exactly the same thing as a gal hitting on a guy. There is no propaganda available that will make me think otherwise.

I don't see how hitting on someone making an unwanted pass is really warranted, unless they started really harassing you or something. That is kind of an uncalled for over-the-top reaction, I think.

ChrisL, in some parts of the country the term "hitting on" means "making a pass".

Well, I know that. I thought it was obvious what I was talking about though. Maybe not.

 

[Skull Pilot]

......if a homosexual made a pass at you? asked you out, flirted with you etc.?

How do you think you would handle it? or
If it HAS happened to you, how did you handle it?

There's a gay guy at a business I use and one day he just came out and told me he had a crush on me.

I said "I'm flattered but you know I'm straight and married right?"

It's the same thing I would have said to a woman (well not the straight part but you get the drift)

 

[Iceweasel]

There's a guy at the dog food place I go to, new guy, who is like a caricature of a homosexual. Huge round wire lensed glasses, a flower behind his ears. Yes, flowers. Acts like he's love to do whatever. He creeps me out. Like an ugly bull dike with a chip on her shoulder looking for a fight. I just feel sorry for these people, they're dysfunctional and us pretending they're normal probably isn't helping.

 

[Nosmo King]

There's a guy at the dog food place I go to, new guy, who is like a caricature of a homosexual. Huge round wire lensed glasses, a flower behind his ears. Yes, flowers. Acts like he's love to do whatever. He creeps me out. Like an ugly bull dike with a chip on her shoulder looking for a fight. I just feel sorry for these people, they're dysfunctional and us pretending they're normal probably isn't helping.

And what sort of behavior do you suggest to "help" them?

 

[Syriusly]

LOL- porn is not 'sex'- any more than a Romantic Comedy is how real relationships work.

That being said- I think all marriages benefit if both partners know how to have sex better- and desire to have a sexual relationship with each other.

... something that can be taught? what's the "secret" to good sex?
CLUE - it's not communication.

Well as far as I am concerned 'the secret' includes wanting to have sex, a certain fearless attitude towards sex, and the desire to provide pleasure to your partner.

So, you either have it or you don't............ ok...............

The desire to share pleasure can lead to a desire to learn how to do so better. Books- or a more experienced lover can both help when it comes to that. But if a person doesn't have a desire to share pleasure.....I dont' think learning techniques help much.

Hmm- to me- its like dancing. I would rather be with a woman who really wants to dance with ME- and obviously enjoys dancing with ME- than the best ballroom dancer who is just going through the motions.

I would think it be nearly impossible for a selfish or self-centered person to enjoy sex at it's best then.
Would you agree?

That would be my opinion also.

Though a truly self centered person might get great physical pleasure from receiving sex- unless there is something of a reciprocal nature to it, it wouldn't be much more than masturbation or dancing alone.

 

[Syriusly]

There's a guy at the dog food place I go to, new guy, who is like a caricature of a homosexual. Huge round wire lensed glasses, a flower behind his ears. Yes, flowers. Acts like he's love to do whatever. He creeps me out. Like an ugly bull dike with a chip on her shoulder looking for a fight. I just feel sorry for these people, they're dysfunctional and us pretending they're normal probably isn't helping.

We feel the same way about you.

 

[Syriusly]

A Lesbian couple opened up an ice cream parlor. They called it "Lickety Splits".

Take the pass as a compliment and be a lady or gentleman and graciously decline.

A guy hitting on a guy isn't exactly the same thing as a gal hitting on a guy. There is no propaganda available that will make me think otherwise.

Because you find one 'icky' and not the other.

I can't tell you how many women have told me how amusing they find male outrage at being hit on by guys. That is what they deal with all the time, not just when you frequent your local gay bar.

 

[Bonzi]

... something that can be taught? what's the "secret" to good sex?
CLUE - it's not communication.

Well as far as I am concerned 'the secret' includes wanting to have sex, a certain fearless attitude towards sex, and the desire to provide pleasure to your partner.

So, you either have it or you don't............ ok...............

The desire to share pleasure can lead to a desire to learn how to do so better. Books- or a more experienced lover can both help when it comes to that. But if a person doesn't have a desire to share pleasure.....I dont' think learning techniques help much.

Hmm- to me- its like dancing. I would rather be with a woman who really wants to dance with ME- and obviously enjoys dancing with ME- than the best ballroom dancer who is just going through the motions.

I would think it be nearly impossible for a selfish or self-centered person to enjoy sex at it's best then.
Would you agree?

That would be my opinion also.

Though a truly self centered person might get great physical pleasure from receiving sex- unless there is something of a reciprocal nature to it, it wouldn't be much more than masturbation or dancing alone.

What would you say about someone that enjoys masturbation MORE than sex?