tinydancer
Diamond Member
I suspect what the OP sensibility doesn't get here is that "integration" --- means a dialogue, not a monologue. There seems to be this expectation that it's all on "them", and a concurrent ignorance of the concept of reaching out to ask "how do you see.... "
That concept seems to be beyond the scope of their own self-centredness.
It's just what happens.
They gravitate to their own. Never become part of the fabric. Not like the old days.