Is she just plain stupid?

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    "While Chris is reflective and saddened about what happened, he is really happy to be with the woman he loves."


    Yeah...reflective and saddened.

    Beat the *%#$ out of her and all he can feel is reflection and sadness?

    She obviously suffered some mental defect to go back.
     
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    stupid is as stupid does...so yes she is...
     
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    Famous people = Stupid people.
     
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    she needs help....

    she needs to read;

    ''I'M OKAY, YOU'RE OK
    Men, Who Hate Women,
    And the Women, Who Love Them''

    can't remember the author....
     
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    Why does she have such low self esteem to take him back? What happened in her past to put up with that from a man?
     
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    in all seriousness, the worst part of this is that these two young people are said to b role models....so now the role models are showing that beating the shit outta someone is fine...as long as you grovel a wee bit and all..i wonder when they will be back in the news...he will beat the shit outta her again..she has all but said ...its okay beat me and i will still love you...i dont think anyone...male or female should be abused against their will..

    i wonder how many young girls are now hoping their boyfriends love them enough to beat them?
     
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    RGS. Look up Trauma Bonding and Stockholm Syndrome. It explains why people go back into abusive relationships or keep selecting abusive people to be involved with.

    What you're referring to as 'stupidity' is literal brain injury that happens to people who are abused and traumatized. They re-enact the abuse endlessly unless they get treatment for PTSD.
     
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    So true bones. The girls that look to the media and the internet to guide them, instead of their families. It's scary. Just watch any reality show, and the amount of skanks that will do anything to be on tv.

    Yes, a young impressionable girl will read about this and think, "Ah, he beats me so he DOES love me after all!"
     
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    I think if these famous people illustrate the problem of trauma bonding and domestic violence they do us all a world of good. Any parent who isn't discussing current events and media coverage with their kids is missing an educational moment.

    It gives all of us an opportunity to look at this serious issue in more depth.
     
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