Ok say there is a young man who met a girl say at a school they went to together. And this young man has known her for the past three years. And despite not seeing each other they corresponded and even went on a date once but didnt follow up do to busy scheduling. And say that this young man (we will call him YM) graduated from said school and is now living where he grew up to attend graduate school and has come to realize that this young lady (whom we will call PW IE Perfect Woman) is amazing and makes him lose his mind with excitement everytime they talk. Now here is the problem. PW is across the country in another state, lets say Idaho at the moment. And chances are that since YM has graduated he may never see her again in person. Or if worst comes to worst she will be swept off her feet by another man we will call RM. When YM and PW talk they totally flirt and share thoughts and are very open about things. Not to mention PW is a total hottie. IE hotter than most female pop stars. Should YM just consign himself for never having a shot with a girl so far away or should he do something and if so what?