Favourite Sexual Activities

[ChrisL]

Funny that anal got three votes. Lol. Most women actually do not enjoy anal sex. Anal sex is most often enjoyed by men, either as giving or receiving. On the receiving end, because they have a prostate gland, and it apparently feels good when the prostate gland is stimulated. Women don't have a prostate gland, and while it is possible for the nerve endings of the clitoris to spread far, it is pretty rare for women to have the correct "anatomy" to really "enjoy" anal sex.

I think most women pretend that they enjoy it for their man's sake.

Dunno where you get your sex info but I've yet to see you say anything true or correct. No offense, only as good as your source.

Skene's gland - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

The female prostate aka g-spot.

Why do women who have anal sex get more orgasms?
How This 39-Year-Old Mom Has Orgasms From Anal Sex
Here Are More Reasons Why Girls Should Only Have Anal Sex | VICE | United States

It also is a LOT of work and preparation to have anal sex. Goodness! I've read stories about what some women do, like pouring lubricant into their butts and make sure the guy doesn't orgasm inside because then you can have "bowel issues." Not to mention, the possibility of poop is not very appealing for me personally. That's just me though.

In my experience having lots of anal sex with men and women, people into anal sex keep their tushies cleaner than those that don't.

If you have prolonged "anal" encounters, it can actually damage the skin inside of the anus. That skin is much more thin and inclined to "tear" and be damaged than that of the vagina. You have to (or probably should anyway) take precautions like lubricating, and I've heard of people even taking enemas!!!

Personally, I prefer sex to be more passionate and less "planned" activity.

Anal Sex Safety and Health Concerns

All skin heals. Properly prepared and lubricated anal's no riskier than vaginal. Can't imagine nayone does it sans lube. Even in porn if ya don't see them apply the lube doesn't mean they didn't before hand.

It is more risky though, and you have to take "special" precautions. You are spreading false information. Stop it.

 

[WinterBorn]

Honesty goes a long way. If I ever had to "start over" again, I'm sure I would be pretty lonely because I have realized my expectations are way too high and specific. But, they are what they are.....

I have found I don't expect much, I just hope for a lot.

I guess being a "service Top" has advantages. (PM me if you want further info)

 

[ChrisL]

Funny that anal got three votes. Lol. Most women actually do not enjoy anal sex. Anal sex is most often enjoyed by men, either as giving or receiving. On the receiving end, because they have a prostate gland, and it apparently feels good when the prostate gland is stimulated. Women don't have a prostate gland, and while it is possible for the nerve endings of the clitoris to spread far, it is pretty rare for women to have the correct "anatomy" to really "enjoy" anal sex.

I think most women pretend that they enjoy it for their man's sake.

Dunno where you get your sex info but I've yet to see you say anything true or correct. No offense, only as good as your source.

Skene's gland - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

The female prostate aka g-spot.

Why do women who have anal sex get more orgasms?
How This 39-Year-Old Mom Has Orgasms From Anal Sex
Here Are More Reasons Why Girls Should Only Have Anal Sex | VICE | United States

It also is a LOT of work and preparation to have anal sex. Goodness! I've read stories about what some women do, like pouring lubricant into their butts and make sure the guy doesn't orgasm inside because then you can have "bowel issues." Not to mention, the possibility of poop is not very appealing for me personally. That's just me though.

In my experience having lots of anal sex with men and women, people into anal sex keep their tushies cleaner than those that don't.

If you have prolonged "anal" encounters, it can actually damage the skin inside of the anus. That skin is much more thin and inclined to "tear" and be damaged than that of the vagina. You have to (or probably should anyway) take precautions like lubricating, and I've heard of people even taking enemas!!!

Personally, I prefer sex to be more passionate and less "planned" activity.

Anal Sex Safety and Health Concerns

All skin heals. Properly prepared and lubricated anal's no riskier than vaginal. Can't imagine nayone does it sans lube. Even in porn if ya don't see them apply the lube doesn't mean they didn't before hand.

The vagina is naturally lubricated. That is not the case with the butt. The butt does not produce any natural lubrication unless you count poop as lubrication. Hence the joke, "I'm going in dry." Lol.

 

[WinterBorn]

Funny that anal got three votes. Lol. Most women actually do not enjoy anal sex. Anal sex is most often enjoyed by men, either as giving or receiving. On the receiving end, because they have a prostate gland, and it apparently feels good when the prostate gland is stimulated. Women don't have a prostate gland, and while it is possible for the nerve endings of the clitoris to spread far, it is pretty rare for women to have the correct "anatomy" to really "enjoy" anal sex.

I think most women pretend that they enjoy it for their man's sake.

Dunno where you get your sex info but I've yet to see you say anything true or correct. No offense, only as good as your source.

Skene's gland - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

The female prostate aka g-spot.

Why do women who have anal sex get more orgasms?
How This 39-Year-Old Mom Has Orgasms From Anal Sex
Here Are More Reasons Why Girls Should Only Have Anal Sex | VICE | United States

I know several women personally who do not enjoy it but grin and bare it for their SO.

They tell their SO that they love it, but they really don't.

They should learn to be honest with their partners.

What's the harm in pretending? That's what role playing is. I don't think that THIS particular thing is a harmful thing, just something some girls do to please their guy. They don't have to LOVE it, to agree to do it, and some guys wouldn't care anyways. Just being honest and realistic.

I believe that both people should have a choice in the matter. If he knew she didn't enjoy it, he might not want to do it.

 

[Delta4Embassy]

Dunno where you get your sex info but I've yet to see you say anything true or correct. No offense, only as good as your source.

Skene's gland - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

The female prostate aka g-spot.

Why do women who have anal sex get more orgasms?
How This 39-Year-Old Mom Has Orgasms From Anal Sex
Here Are More Reasons Why Girls Should Only Have Anal Sex | VICE | United States

It also is a LOT of work and preparation to have anal sex. Goodness! I've read stories about what some women do, like pouring lubricant into their butts and make sure the guy doesn't orgasm inside because then you can have "bowel issues." Not to mention, the possibility of poop is not very appealing for me personally. That's just me though.

In my experience having lots of anal sex with men and women, people into anal sex keep their tushies cleaner than those that don't.

If you have prolonged "anal" encounters, it can actually damage the skin inside of the anus. That skin is much more thin and inclined to "tear" and be damaged than that of the vagina. You have to (or probably should anyway) take precautions like lubricating, and I've heard of people even taking enemas!!!

Personally, I prefer sex to be more passionate and less "planned" activity.

Anal Sex Safety and Health Concerns

All skin heals. Properly prepared and lubricated anal's no riskier than vaginal. Can't imagine nayone does it sans lube. Even in porn if ya don't see them apply the lube doesn't mean they didn't before hand.

It is more risky though, and you have to take "special" precautions. You are spreading false information. Stop it.

Not the one demonstratably wrong. The only increased risk comes from how much easier it's an entry point to the blood stream. Yes the skin is thinner, the blood vessels are also closer to the surface and there's a lot more nerve endings (evolutionary adaption to let us know when we need to expel waste.) But it's like vaginal and every other sort of sexual behaviour. Know what you're doing, do it properly, and the risk is no greater than anything else.

You're the one trying to scare people with your dubious sources.

 

[ChrisL]

Funny that anal got three votes. Lol. Most women actually do not enjoy anal sex. Anal sex is most often enjoyed by men, either as giving or receiving. On the receiving end, because they have a prostate gland, and it apparently feels good when the prostate gland is stimulated. Women don't have a prostate gland, and while it is possible for the nerve endings of the clitoris to spread far, it is pretty rare for women to have the correct "anatomy" to really "enjoy" anal sex.

I think most women pretend that they enjoy it for their man's sake.

Dunno where you get your sex info but I've yet to see you say anything true or correct. No offense, only as good as your source.

Skene's gland - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

The female prostate aka g-spot.

Why do women who have anal sex get more orgasms?
How This 39-Year-Old Mom Has Orgasms From Anal Sex
Here Are More Reasons Why Girls Should Only Have Anal Sex | VICE | United States

I know several women personally who do not enjoy it but grin and bare it for their SO.

They tell their SO that they love it, but they really don't.

They should learn to be honest with their partners.

What's the harm in pretending? That's what role playing is. I don't think that THIS particular thing is a harmful thing, just something some girls do to please their guy. They don't have to LOVE it, to agree to do it, and some guys wouldn't care anyways. Just being honest and realistic.

I believe that both people should have a choice in the matter. If he knew she didn't enjoy it, he might not want to do it.

Maybe, or he might be happy that she obliges him. Anyway, I really think that most women who do enjoy, probably enjoy it because it's "naughty." Lol. So maybe they DO get some enjoyment out of it. If they absolutely hated it, they probably would not keep doing it.

 

[ChrisL]

It also is a LOT of work and preparation to have anal sex. Goodness! I've read stories about what some women do, like pouring lubricant into their butts and make sure the guy doesn't orgasm inside because then you can have "bowel issues." Not to mention, the possibility of poop is not very appealing for me personally. That's just me though.

In my experience having lots of anal sex with men and women, people into anal sex keep their tushies cleaner than those that don't.

If you have prolonged "anal" encounters, it can actually damage the skin inside of the anus. That skin is much more thin and inclined to "tear" and be damaged than that of the vagina. You have to (or probably should anyway) take precautions like lubricating, and I've heard of people even taking enemas!!!

Personally, I prefer sex to be more passionate and less "planned" activity.

Anal Sex Safety and Health Concerns

All skin heals. Properly prepared and lubricated anal's no riskier than vaginal. Can't imagine nayone does it sans lube. Even in porn if ya don't see them apply the lube doesn't mean they didn't before hand.

It is more risky though, and you have to take "special" precautions. You are spreading false information. Stop it.

Not the one demonstratably wrong. The only increased risk comes from how much easier it's an entry point to the blood stream. Yes the skin is thinner, the blood vessels are also closer to the surface and there's a lot more nerve endings (evolutionary adaption to let us know when we need to expel waste.) But it's like vaginal and every other sort of sexual behaviour. Know what you're doing, do it properly, and the risk is no greater than anything else.

You're the one trying to scare people with your dubious sources.

No way. My source is Web MD. Lol.

 

[WinterBorn]

Dunno where you get your sex info but I've yet to see you say anything true or correct. No offense, only as good as your source.

Skene's gland - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

The female prostate aka g-spot.

Why do women who have anal sex get more orgasms?
How This 39-Year-Old Mom Has Orgasms From Anal Sex
Here Are More Reasons Why Girls Should Only Have Anal Sex | VICE | United States

I know several women personally who do not enjoy it but grin and bare it for their SO.

They tell their SO that they love it, but they really don't.

They should learn to be honest with their partners.

What's the harm in pretending? That's what role playing is. I don't think that THIS particular thing is a harmful thing, just something some girls do to please their guy. They don't have to LOVE it, to agree to do it, and some guys wouldn't care anyways. Just being honest and realistic.

I believe that both people should have a choice in the matter. If he knew she didn't enjoy it, he might not want to do it.

Maybe, or he might be happy that she obliges him. Anyway, I really think that most women who do enjoy, probably enjoy it because it's "naughty." Lol. So maybe they DO get some enjoyment out of it. If they absolutely hated it, they probably would not keep doing it.

She could still offer to oblige him. Then things would at least be open and honest.

I think you misunderstand. There are a lot of women who like anal for the pleasure. Lots of nerve endings back there. And many women have orgasms from it.

 

[Delta4Embassy]

Mine's my own tuckus. I win.

 

[ChrisL]

Mine's my own tuckus. I win.

Yes, but I'm talking about women. Men get a lot of pleasure because they have a prostate. A woman's skene's gland can be almost nonexistent and is a very TINY gland. Most women I've talked to, it isn't the "anal sex" itself that gives them pleasure but the psychological thought of being a "naughty girl" type of thing. Anal sex is more pleasurable for a man than it is for a woman because of the differences in anatomy.

While, yes, there are nerve endings in the anus, a lot of times for women, just because you can "feel" it does not mean it feels "good." In fact, a lot of women have described it to me as a feeling of taking a big poop.

 

[jon_berzerk]

i like the real thing

 

[ChrisL]

A lot of people will try it just because they're curious too, I think.

 

[Delta4Embassy]

Mine's my own tuckus. I win.

Yes, but I'm talking about women. Men get a lot of pleasure because they have a prostate. A woman's skene's gland can be almost nonexistent and is a very TINY gland. Most women I've talked to, it isn't the "anal sex" itself that gives them pleasure but the psychological thought of being a "naughty girl" type of thing. Anal sex is more pleasurable for a man than it is for a woman because of the differences in anatomy.

While, yes, there are nerve endings in the anus, a lot of times for women, just because you can "feel" it does not mean it feels "good." In fact, a lot of women have described it to me as a feeling of taking a big poop.

Presence of the prostate's redundant. I have one and get no pleasure at all from just the penetration. If not masturbating or being masturbated it's just a almost uncomfortable sensation to me. Envious of guys who can get off from it sans penile stimulation. Dunno what's that's about.

 

[Bonzi]

i like the real thing

it's all "real" maybe you just like the "natural" thing.....
though I have never heard a guy say he didn't like oral....

 

[jon_berzerk]

i like the real thing

it's all "real" maybe you just like the "natural" thing.....
though I have never heard a guy say he didn't like oral....

it looked like the talk was about ass fuckin

im not into it

 

[danielpalos]

i love to practice giving girl friends, irresistible orgasms; does that count?

 

[ChrisL]

i like the real thing

it's all "real" maybe you just like the "natural" thing.....
though I have never heard a guy say he didn't like oral....

I thought maybe he meant vaginal as opposed to anal sex??? Not sure though.

Anyway, you and I are both women who agree that we would prefer to have regular, yet more spontaneous and passionate sex. I've only ever spoken to ONE woman who said she actually "enjoyed" anal sex. Most of the women I've talked to did it because their husbands or boyfriends were into that. I don't have much experience with gay men because I've never known one "personally" enough to talk about such things, and the few that I've met have never volunteered the information. Lol. But I did read up on the matter when my ex was interested in pursuing that activity, and I was like . . . holy shit! Google first time anal sex preparation and you will see what I mean. I don't think it's really appropriate to post here though.

So, for me, that kind of preparation and stuff is not necessary to enjoy sex. I enjoy vaginal sex enough where I don't need to have any "anal" insertion going on down there!

 

[danielpalos]

i think some of us just need more practice and higher numbers.

 

[Bonzi]

i think some of us just need more practice and higher numbers.

... need? or want... ?

 

[danielpalos]

i think some of us just need more practice and higher numbers.

... need? or want... ?

do you not also believe in unrequited love? physical or emotional.