Penelope
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- Jul 15, 2014
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While I understand the feeling of loss I also have immense respect for the mindset of a friend who died of pancreatic cancer a couple of years ago.
When he was diagnosed and the outcome was clear he started bringing the local newspaper to the coffee shop each morning. He'd take out a little spiral notebook and pencil then open the paper to the obituaries. He never noted names; only the ages of those who died (he was approaching 80 himself and had about 4-months to live). Then he'd add up the ages and divide by the number of deceased. That, liberals, produces what is called "an average". When the number was less than his own years he'd slap the notebook shut and proclaim: "Done it again!".
Asked by innocents what he meant, he 'splained that he had, once again, beaten the reaper's batting average.
We miss him.
But we don't mourn.
Yes 80 is a good long life, and many die much younger, but its still sad.