Being Gay -- Born That Way or Choice.

[Cenotaph]

There is nothing wrong with liking someone of the same sex. The peculiarity comes when a person imagines a need to bed a potential best friend and acts on that, that perversion occurs. The reality is that Pandora's box is likely harder to close then it is to open.

So what should a person do, if they are attracted to members of their own sex? Live a life alone, or go with the opposite sex and hope they 'change'?

This could be considered academic regardless of how one feels about same-sex relationships. People get involved in passionless relationships all the time. People also frequently get into relationships hoping for a change in either themselves or their partner. Often these relationship do not work out, but oddly sometimes they do. I don't know the rhyme or reason wherefore this happens. Do you?

I don't know of any situations like that at all. If they exist, though, then that is wonderful, but what does your statement have to do with what Noomi said?

 

[DarkLion]

Sexuality is not a choice. Who would choose to be ridiculed to the point of considering suicide? Who would choose to marginalized and even sometimes disowned by their family?

No one chooses who, or what, they are attracted to.