So a few buddies talked me into going to a "gentlemens establishment"
after work for a beer. I generally don't do this unless it's during the hours of
no cover charge and the majority of the guys in my group will not settle
for a pub. I make it a habbit to pretty much ignore the dancers because I
don't want to send out the message that I want a lap dance. If I notice a girl
who has admirable dancing skills, then I usually stroll up to the stage, drop
my money and walk away as fast as I came up there.
The majority of the girls are ok with this behavior and often respect the
distance I place between us. Most of them already have a sucker on the line
anyway. By sucker I mean that one guy she sits and talks with for hours
and ends up with all of his money. All he gets is a hard on and an obligation
to come back for more, but there's always one girl who nobody wants to talk
to. On this day, she approached me and asked me if I would like to tip her
for her dance. I felt like telling her "If I wanted to tip you, I would have" but
I was nice and threw a dollar at her.
Then she sat down.
I understand that they make their money from
lap dances, but I never really got in to that. So I tell her all four times that
she asks "No thanks". Here's the part that grinds my gears...
Most women in the business "know when to fold em" so to speak, but this
girl wouldn't take no for an answer. I even told her " I'm sure you could
be making more money off someone else." but she still sat at our table.
NO MEANS NO!!!
And no I don't pick and choose, I just don't get lap dances. In fact I'd rather
be anywhere else for that matter, or at least at the pool table.
:firing: 
