Zone1 Would You Make A Relative Change Your Baby's Diaper?

[Frankeneinstein]

Just another version of the 'copout from responsibility and away from the demands of society. Not unlike the copout of the homeless millions on the streets in some ways, in disregarding the needs of the baby.

its official, this forum needs a "ZOMG" emoji

 

[badbob85037]

I wouldn't, but then again I wouldn't force anybody to live with me either. Especially somebody who claims to be uncomfortable with babies and hasn't even cared or bothered to ask to learn.

“Am I A Jerk For Telling My Brother Off When He Berated My Daughter For Not Changing Her Cousin’s Diaper?”

Situations can get especially murky, in terms of boundaries, when dealing with your close relatives.

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I would make a lot of my relatives change my diaper.

 

[GLASNOST]

Who isn't qualified to change a diaper?

Maybe you should be asking those whose job it is to deal with the subject. This (of many examples) will help to show you the need.


Also, below, ABikerSailor points out an additional factor.

It's not so much that changing a diaper is very technical or difficult to do, it's getting past the idea that you're handling poop that smells bad. Some people are seriously squeamish and can't get past that.

Me? I'd worked cleaning stables and chicken coops most of my childhood (grew up on a farm), and so changing diapers was easy compared to cleaning out a chicken coop or a barn.

 

[GLASNOST]

THE BOTTOM LINE(s) from my perspective:

1). We don’t know any of the details on what was said by whom or if there was any above-surface confrontation.

2). If all of the speculation (in this thread) is true then the father isn’t fit to take care of his own child and I hope his wife made him spend the night on the sofa! I, for one, would NEVER insist that someone change my child if they don’t want to do it. READ MY LIPS: It's my child and I want it to be taken care of with the most care and diligence.

 

[Blues Man]

The Reddit link said they were rarely asked to help.

Ungrateful Freeloaders
They deserved to be kicked out

Rarely asked does not mean they did not still help

You do like to make your ASSumptions

 

[Blues Man]

Maybe you should be asking those whose job it is to deal with the subject. This (of many examples) will help to show you the need.


Also, below, ABikerSailor points out an additional factor.

I never changed a diaper or held a baby and I'm in my 50's And I ain't about to start now

 

[rightwinger]

I never changed a diaper or held a baby and I'm in my 50's And I ain't about to start now

Then don’t freeload for three months in a house that has a baby

 

[Blues Man]

Then don’t freeload for three months in a house that has a baby

More ASSumptions from you.

That's all you have

Even if I had a baby AND had invited people to stay with me I would NEVER demand they change diapers or do anything I would have to do if they weren't staying with me.

 

[GLASNOST]

More ASSumptions from you.

Main point NUMBER ONE

Even if I had a baby AND had invited people to stay with me I would NEVER demand they change diapers or do anything I would have to do if they weren't staying with me.

Main point NUMBER TWO


* The final analysis:

 

[rightwinger]

More ASSumptions from you.

That's all you have

Even if I had a baby AND had invited people to stay with me I would NEVER demand they change diapers or do anything I would have to do if they weren't staying with me.

It is best that some people don’t breed

 

[Blues Man]

It is best that some people don’t breed

Yeah we wouldn't want more people who can do what they have to do without demanding others do it for them.

 

[GLASNOST]

It is best that some people don’t breed

Are you going to distribute contraceptive pills to every woman you don't like?

 

[Road Runner]

I never changed a diaper or held a baby and I'm in my 50's And I ain't about to start now

That's alright, we don't need any spawns coming from you anyways.

 

[otto105]

I was expecting to see something about Jill asking Ashley to change Joe.
What a disappointment

hell I thought this was about the don smelling ivanka's diaper....

 

[Blues Man]

That's alright, we don't need any spawns coming from you anyways.

I traveled 'round the world and saw that only stupid people were breeding.

 

[ABikerSailor]

I traveled 'round the world and saw that only stupid people were breeding.

The cretins cloning and feeding...........

And I don't even own a TV.

 

[Unkotare]

The cretins cloning and feeding...........

...

???

 

[Unkotare]

I traveled 'round the world and saw that only stupid people were breeding.

Utter nonsense from a little boy who never grew up.

 

[Unkotare]

I never changed a diaper or held a baby and I'm in my 50's And I ain't about to start now

Arrested development is nothing to be proud of, little boy.

 

[ABikerSailor]

???

Blues Man made a reference to a line from a Harvey Danger song, and I simply provided the next couple of lines.