I didn't vote because there wasn't a choice that jives with reality. Rational justification isn't good enough to take anyone's rights. First there must be a compelling governmental interest and then they have to meet the "strict scrutiny" hurdle, meaning there is no less intrusive alternative method to meet the compelling interest.
Civil unions are a less intrusive method than forced gay marriage.
What rights are taken from you if a gay person gets married?
Don't ask me, ask the States that have chosen not to endorse them. I just gave an example where the courts haven't met the strict scrutiny standard because there are less intrusive ways to accomplish what is being demanded by the faghadist.
States don't have rights. They have powers. People have rights. How are you rights violated if someone else is allowed to be married?
The answer is simple: they aren't. You're completely unaffected. So is anyone else save those getting married (or denied marriage).
There's no 'strict scrutiny' standard in preventing States from violating individual rights.