Of course a choice one makes on behalf of another, especially a child, is genuine!
Wow. I'm speechless if that's what you actually believe.
To be clear, I wasn't talking about the PARENT's choice for another not being genuine. I was talking about the baby, the one being baptized. The parent's "choice" for someone else may be genuine and sincere. But that doesn't matter one whit if the person being baptized has not himself chosen to believe and follow Jesus.
Do you really think that someone can choose for someone else? Of course we can teach someone else. Of course we can PRAY continually for someone else. Of course we can be an example to someone else. Of course we can lead a horse to water..... but you can't force the horse to drink.
We all have to come to that point on our own. If it's someone else's choice thrust upon us without our own "coming to Jesus" moment, then it's not genuine. I honestly don't see how that can even be disputed.
Is not a teacher's selection of a math assignment not a choice for the student; a parent's decision of cookie or apple a choice for the child; a boss's direction to an employee a choice for the employee; Christ's command for baptism a choice for Christians.
While Catholics believe justification takes place in baptism, it is the beginning, not the end of justification. Continue the read of scripture and time after time we read we have the hope of salvation, the hope of seeing God, meaning these are yet to come. Scripture explains our need to grow/remain in grace, and that grace can be resisted.
God chose redemption and salvation for all. Can it be resisted? Yes. Will there be Prodigal Sons? Yes. Will there be lost sheep? Yes. No matter when our baptism, if we stray, there are ways back.
I never said that there aren't Prodigal Sons or ways back. That's not the issue here.
The bottom line is, water baptism is not what saves us, and if we don't make the aware, serious and genuine choice for Christ on our own, then water baptism is meaningless in regard to salvation, even if it means something to the parents.
There are lots of people who were water baptized as an infant in a church, and then when they got older left religion and became life-long atheists. Do you believe those atheists will go to heaven even though they completely reject God and never chose to follow Jesus, simply because they went through infant baptism and first communion?