I’ve had that exact thing happen to me three times to my knowledge. I’ve lost other opportunities that the people doing the hiring refused to tell me the reason another candidate was chosen. You need to grow up and accept that life isn’t fair. I’ve never bitched and complained about civil rights. I have complained about preferential programs that will never end. Blacks and other minorities have had legal preference in the labor market through my entire adult working life. I think everyone should be equal under the law and that people who violate those laws should be prosecuted to the full extent of the law. I don’t think that any race, religion or ethnicity should receive preference over any other. The only way to stop racism is to make race irrelevant. You don’t cure racism with reverse racism.
Don't tell me to grow up, between the two of us, you're the one behaving like a child.
NO ONE ever said that white people do not have things happen to them. That you believe that's what we've been stating is just one more instance of you demonstrating your lack of understanding of a rather simple concept. If you are not Black then you didn't lose out on the job you wanted and/or were the most qualified for (in your opinion, if they didn't tell you that)
due to racism (BECAUSE YOU ARE BLACK).
In other words, while you and I may face the same challenges in applying for jobs and being chosen based
solely on our qualifications, I also have ADDITIONAL hurdles to overcome because I am Black and I'm female and I work in industries that are dominated by white men. And I saw one of them throw a hissy fit when I was given a position that he wanted (internal movement).
There is no reverse racism even though it may feel that way because whites, particularly white men, do not automatically have the shoo-in that they previously held along with their good ole boy networks, at least not 100% of the time because they certainly do still exist.
Black pilots who fought honorably for the U.S. & Allies were kept out of the commercial airline business after the end of WWII for no other reason than racism against them. Now that barrier to hiring has pretty much been moved yet you all still complain that you don't get 100% of the pie and now claim racism against whites and favoritism for Blacks. There is no such thing as legal preferences and if there were why do Black people not dominate in every work arena? In many places we don't make up our representation in the population in the workforce. I've probably have worked with less than half a dozen Black female software developers as I was advancing through my career. Now days, they are teaching Black girls coding when they are young which is great.
And if you're seriously stupid enough to think that I got to where I am by crying about what a bunch of ignorant ass racists wouldn't "allow" me to do, then I revert to my original statement. I don't generally call people stupid but you've made a lot of stupid assumptions about me, my life and who I am, when all you had to do was ask.
But then again you probably wouldn't believe any of us, just like RayFromCleveland wouldn't believe anything I was telling him about the laws in Florida regarding CCWs.
I have complained about preferential programs that will never end. Blacks and other minorities have had legal preference in the labor market through my entire adult working life.
Well if you're expecting things to go back to the white racism in society and employment that preceded the passage of the Civil Rights Act of 1964 then yeah, the change in society and employment is not going to go back to what it was before. Why would it? Why would you want it to? We've made gains, and you want to wipe those out?