What Women Want.....

[ChrisL]

what do you think?

name just ONE thing, the one you think women want MOST.

I'll give my answer separately....

A sense of security.

Is this a trick question or something?

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Happiness, loyalty and respect.

Same thing...in a way.

The same thing as security? If I want security, I'll get a gun.

If that makes you happy. I can respect that.

Oh, you are very clever.

 

[percysunshine]

A sense of security.

Is this a trick question or something?

.

Happiness, loyalty and respect.

Same thing...in a way.

The same thing as security? If I want security, I'll get a gun.

If that makes you happy. I can respect that.

Oh, you are very clever.

Women like that too...

 

[ChrisL]

Happiness, loyalty and respect.

Same thing...in a way.

The same thing as security? If I want security, I'll get a gun.

If that makes you happy. I can respect that.

Oh, you are very clever.

Women like that too...

That depends.

 

[percysunshine]

Same thing...in a way.

The same thing as security? If I want security, I'll get a gun.

If that makes you happy. I can respect that.

Oh, you are very clever.

Women like that too...

That depends.

Do women like to laugh? It goes with the happiness thing.

 

[ChrisL]

The same thing as security? If I want security, I'll get a gun.

If that makes you happy. I can respect that.

Oh, you are very clever.

Women like that too...

That depends.

Do women like to laugh? It goes with the happiness thing.

I love to laugh. Humor is also a very important quality in a guy for me. There is nothing worse than a person with no sense of humor, even in friendship. Lame.

 

[Bonzi]

Any man care to rebut this?

I don't really care about feelings either, except when I'm having sex - if men just want sex and food, they should marry a sex addict who can cook.

In context. (My statement)
Men don't want just sex and food unless he is an asshole.
Men want affection. Amongst ourselves there is an unwritten "no affection allowed" law...with women we are "allowed" to be affectionate...both ways.

well I have to admit, if a guy is overly affectionate and all gooey it's kinda weird.
I just want him to be happy about MY being affectionate with him.
And if he wants to give me a full body massage, I won't complain...

Well remember...I said sex is about the woman and not the man. When a woman is well pleased - she wants it again and more often. Reverse psychology.

Can a man fake uncontrollable lust?

Why fake it...it is always there.

no, not uncontrollable lust
men that get off on teasing women or making it last - that's manipulation.
if it's uncontrollable lust, they will want to take you in a passionate rage (well, that's what *I* want anyway....)
As for lingering sex, I want that done in mutual love and adoration, like a well timed machine. I don't want to be "serviced" I want to entwine mutually.....

 

[Bonzi]

I think throughout the course of your sex life, there is a time for everything if you are in synch with your partner....
I doesn't and shouldn't be "one certain way" all the time.....

 

[there4eyeM]

Don't they want what everyone does, liberation from the karmic wheel of illusion and rebirth?

 

[iamwhatiseem]

In context. (My statement)
Men don't want just sex and food unless he is an asshole.
Men want affection. Amongst ourselves there is an unwritten "no affection allowed" law...with women we are "allowed" to be affectionate...both ways.

well I have to admit, if a guy is overly affectionate and all gooey it's kinda weird.
I just want him to be happy about MY being affectionate with him.
And if he wants to give me a full body massage, I won't complain...

Well remember...I said sex is about the woman and not the man. When a woman is well pleased - she wants it again and more often. Reverse psychology.

Can a man fake uncontrollable lust?

Why fake it...it is always there.

no, not uncontrollable lust
men that get off on teasing women or making it last - that's manipulation.
if it's uncontrollable lust, they will want to take you in a passionate rage (well, that's what *I* want anyway....)
As for lingering sex, I want that done in mutual love and adoration, like a well timed machine. I don't want to be "serviced" I want to entwine mutually.....

Well perhaps you are on the wrong forum...agewise.
At 51, I don't really have anything in my life I am not in control of. Except my prostate that convinces my bladder it needs emptying at 2 am every night.

 

[Bonzi]

well I have to admit, if a guy is overly affectionate and all gooey it's kinda weird.
I just want him to be happy about MY being affectionate with him.
And if he wants to give me a full body massage, I won't complain...

Well remember...I said sex is about the woman and not the man. When a woman is well pleased - she wants it again and more often. Reverse psychology.

Can a man fake uncontrollable lust?

Why fake it...it is always there.

no, not uncontrollable lust
men that get off on teasing women or making it last - that's manipulation.
if it's uncontrollable lust, they will want to take you in a passionate rage (well, that's what *I* want anyway....)
As for lingering sex, I want that done in mutual love and adoration, like a well timed machine. I don't want to be "serviced" I want to entwine mutually.....

Well perhaps you are on the wrong forum...agewise.
At 51, I don't really have anything in my life I am not in control of. Except my prostate that convinces my bladder it needs emptying at 2 am every night.

I'm 52, but I guess emotionally I'm about 15

 

[ChrisL]

well I have to admit, if a guy is overly affectionate and all gooey it's kinda weird.
I just want him to be happy about MY being affectionate with him.
And if he wants to give me a full body massage, I won't complain...

Well remember...I said sex is about the woman and not the man. When a woman is well pleased - she wants it again and more often. Reverse psychology.

Can a man fake uncontrollable lust?

Why fake it...it is always there.

no, not uncontrollable lust
men that get off on teasing women or making it last - that's manipulation.
if it's uncontrollable lust, they will want to take you in a passionate rage (well, that's what *I* want anyway....)
As for lingering sex, I want that done in mutual love and adoration, like a well timed machine. I don't want to be "serviced" I want to entwine mutually.....

Well perhaps you are on the wrong forum...agewise.
At 51, I don't really have anything in my life I am not in control of. Except my prostate that convinces my bladder it needs emptying at 2 am every night.

I would say so, since this is a political forum. It's not Ashley Madison.

 

[ChrisL]

Well remember...I said sex is about the woman and not the man. When a woman is well pleased - she wants it again and more often. Reverse psychology.

Can a man fake uncontrollable lust?

Why fake it...it is always there.

no, not uncontrollable lust
men that get off on teasing women or making it last - that's manipulation.
if it's uncontrollable lust, they will want to take you in a passionate rage (well, that's what *I* want anyway....)
As for lingering sex, I want that done in mutual love and adoration, like a well timed machine. I don't want to be "serviced" I want to entwine mutually.....

Well perhaps you are on the wrong forum...agewise.
At 51, I don't really have anything in my life I am not in control of. Except my prostate that convinces my bladder it needs emptying at 2 am every night.

I'm 52, but I guess emotionally I'm about 15

Why do you think that is? What stunted your emotional development into a woman?

 

[Dogmaphobe]

That depends.

Really?

I have had to learn the hard way not to wear my Depends when getting amorous because women say it is a turn off for some strange reason.