I think there are 2 sides to this. To borrow for let’s say a house and maybe a car is different than buying a computer, new phone, a TV, movie tickets, junk food… eating out…. cloths… and so on with debt.
A house and a car if bought within reason is more like an investment. What I mean buy buying within reason is buying a house for 600k when you make 18$ an hour, then blaming the bank for predatory lending is actually more along the lines of outright and pure stupidity. Same goes for a car, you can buy a perfectly good car for 15k with low miles or you can buy a 55k car, new off the lot that you actually can’t really afford.
To buy a house is usually a step in life for people, they should be buying a house for their future, the long term. Do you plan on kids, parents living with you, animals and so on. The bank will look at your job, your work history and all that, to figure the risk. Buying useless crap is different, even with credit. The CC company is not standing over you saying it will loan you the money for this, but not that.
This always leads us back to personal responsibility. Either you have it or you don’t… You can learn it, but at the time of the choice it’s really up to the individual, and it should be.
It's a tough question, because everyone is different. If I want a loan for 100k to start a business I don't have the same chance of making it as anyone else that takes a 100k loan out to start a business, we are all different.