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Ah, a bit of good news. I went into hysterics yesterday and failed to do the math on the finances properly. I made a giant error. So in my calmness I went back over the finances again and discovered I had plenty of money left in the bank after all the expenses were deducted.Yes ma'am!
On a side note, we tried our last option today in refinancing the house and were denied.
We can only hope we have enough money to pay these loans.
Someone please help us.
Hey guys. I know, I know, it's been a while since I showed up here. A lot happened in the time before I came back. We got the mortgage modified, so we are not in danger of losing our home now. My grandmother also is planning to make me co-owner of the house on the mortgage documentation since I am helping pay half the mortgage. I also completed a debt consolidation program for her with my own money to repay her for some of the bad things I did with her money as a 20-something hooligan.
We had stable finances, for the first time in a long time. We could see the sun peeking over the horizon. But now we're in an emergency. The bills and monthly payments on existing loans are threatening to swallow our combined income whole. I don't know how we'll get through this, honestly.
Please pass this on to anyone you know. I can't let her down now. Not now. Not after having seemingly redeemed myself in her and (possibly) God's eyes.
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Look for homeowner forgiveness packages.
Or for philanthropic sites for families in need.
I don't know if the DementocRats have stopped them, but there used to be government subsidies and grant programs for homeowners in need of paying the mortgage.
Prayers up for Mr. G, Gracie and also for what you 're going through.So...saw MrG at the ENT. He looks ok I guess. He is right at home with a wheel chair now, and his oxygen tanks. He lost some pounds, which is good. We didn't have time to talk much, but I went in with him to get his ears tested then see the doc himself. Results are..he now has a dead ear, which is what the doc called it. Completely deaf in the left side. No clue why. Duh. I said because he fell because he was dizzy, because he was short of breath and it all started when he got that damn vax. Doc said could be so.
He went back to the conval home with his assistant that drove him there, and next visit to the doc is to the surgeon tomorrow to see what the results are on the biopsies. MrG says he thinks its cancer. I said don't jump the gun and lets just wait to see what he says.
The conval home called around 7pm and said he is being released next tuesday and on Monday, the people with the oxygen tanks will be here at the apt to set everything up. I said fine....cuz I have no clue about this stuff. They said I could come in prior for lessons and I said no...I can't. You won't let me in because I am unvaxxed and will NEVER get that jab. Ever. NEVER. They said oh, ok. Then the people delivering and setting up the tanks will explain it.
This has thrown me for a loop. I never imagined the golden years this way. MrG was fine until he got those shots. Went to the store, drove around now and then to thrift shops. Got his own meds from the RX. Put together walkers for neighbors in the same building. Normal usual stuff although a couch potatoe with his tv remote glued to his hand. Now? MrG disappeared and in his place is this weak, gasping old man who has to use a wheel chair and a walker with an oxygen tank attached to it or him when he is not in his bed.
Working on getting a home health care lady to come in 5 days a week for 2 hours since I am pretty much in full flare up and can't even use my right hand these past few days. And even when not in flareup mode, I cannot help him into the shower or do things needing done to keep him comfortable. I can do light cooking (one handed), keep the apt clean, take out the trash, fetch his meds, go grocery shopping, take him to docs, etc. But I have my limits so..I asked the lady Q (short for her full name) if she could do it and she said she would love to do it cuz it those two hours for 5 days would put her back up to 40 hours a week since she sees two other people here in the same complex. AND..she cooks soul food since she is black, which MrG LOVES. And I love her too. We have been buddies ever since I met her. I just never thought I would wind up having her as MrGs caregiver...or that he would need one, period.
So......trying to digest all this. Not fun. But....life is what is dealt and boy is it dealing me some major punches.
He's home. So far....we have been told its COPD. NOT lung cancer. He's on oxygen, but that will not last long unless we get a caregiver. They didn't give him a portable strap on tank...nope. Their idea of portables are 3 large tanks with one trolly to drag it around. He can't drag it...and use his walker. So that means I have to follow him around and drag it. Had to take him to pain doc today and dragging that thing around while I am in flareup was NOT FUN. And not acceptable. So....we have to wait until his lung doctor gets back to see what therapy he needs and hopefully get a compact tank cuz I will NOT keep doing this. I can't. I'm hurting so bad right now, I can barely move.
I imagine all of us have done that at one time or another. Good news though.Ah, a bit of good news. I went into hysterics yesterday and failed to do the math on the finances properly. I made a giant error. So in my calmness I went back over the finances again and discovered I had plenty of money left in the bank after all the expenses were deducted.
PAY NO MIND TO THAT IDIOT BEHIND THE CURTAIN!
Unacceptable. I know you guys chose to stay in California for the healthcare provided there. But doesn't look like they're very patient oriented maybe? I'm not sure what town/city you're in right now, but as Dragonlady mentioned, there might be private support groups who can help.He's home. So far....we have been told its COPD. NOT lung cancer. He's on oxygen, but that will not last long unless we get a caregiver. They didn't give him a portable strap on tank...nope. Their idea of portables are 3 large tanks with one trolly to drag it around. He can't drag it...and use his walker. So that means I have to follow him around and drag it. Had to take him to pain doc today and dragging that thing around while I am in flareup was NOT FUN. And not acceptable. So....we have to wait until his lung doctor gets back to see what therapy he needs and hopefully get a compact tank cuz I will NOT keep doing this. I can't. I'm hurting so bad right now, I can barely move.
Ah, a bit of good news. I went into hysterics yesterday and failed to do the math on the finances properly. I made a giant error. So in my calmness I went back over the finances again and discovered I had plenty of money left in the bank after all the expenses were deducted.
PAY NO MIND TO THAT IDIOT BEHIND THE CURTAIN!
My husband did that once. He was feaking out because our house payment was coming due and it was about to bounce! The guy who got A+ in trigonometry in college, wrote a $100 cheque and deducted $1000 from our running bank balance. I knew approximately how much should be in the account, but not the exact amount, and it was a lot more than he said we had. I knew I hadn't spent any of it anything other than groceries and transit.
His relief when I found the error was palpable so I know how you feel. Congrats on getting your refi done and dusted. It's such a huge to get that done.
Bummer Ollie. Hopefully it is a false positive. As I recall she was really sick when she got it before. Maybe no symptoms this time? Our primary doctor's office called us in this morning to get our booster shots and so far zero side affects. But New Mexico is 88% vaccinated now with at least one shot but the Omicron variant is running rampant. It is more like a really bad flu but reasonable caution is smart I think. I guess she gets Christmas off though.Have to cancel my Christmas trip to my daughters house. She called this morning to tell me she tested positive for Covid, again. Last time was in 2020. Yes she has been vaccinated since then but she is a nurse and 4 people in her pediatric clinic tested positive this past week. We'll do Christmas in January.
Talk to your caregiver, Gracie. He needs professional round the clock care, and you will also be in that category if you don't take care of your own needs that do not include carrying his heavy equipment around to your pain. Sometimes we have to do what must be done. My prayers are up for you this evening.He's home. So far....we have been told its COPD. NOT lung cancer. He's on oxygen, but that will not last long unless we get a caregiver. They didn't give him a portable strap on tank...nope. Their idea of portables are 3 large tanks with one trolly to drag it around. He can't drag it...and use his walker. So that means I have to follow him around and drag it. Had to take him to pain doc today and dragging that thing around while I am in flareup was NOT FUN. And not acceptable. So....we have to wait until his lung doctor gets back to see what therapy he needs and hopefully get a compact tank cuz I will NOT keep doing this. I can't. I'm hurting so bad right now, I can barely move.
Bless you and your family, Ollie. May your daughter be as good as new soon. ♡Have to cancel my Christmas trip to my daughters house. She called this morning to tell me she tested positive for Covid, again. Last time was in 2020. Yes she has been vaccinated since then but she is a nurse and 4 people in her pediatric clinic tested positive this past week. We'll do Christmas in January.
