Well...vet just called. Abel is now..drumroll...an Abby. He's a she. And she has already been spayed. I guess she was in the catch and release program when she was a kitten cuz she has a notch in her ear (vet said they do that to mark already "fixed" kittens). She has an ear infection, but also has swollen lymph nodes that could be cancer but I didn't want to pay 200 bucks for a test (lymphoma). They said when she gets really ill and can't do cat things anymore, then she should be put down. I said I agreed. But for now, she is eating, drinking, playing, pooping, peeing, and in general seems to be happy except for the ear infection for which she was treated today. And when the time comes to send her off to rainbow bridge..well..then that's what I will do. But not yet. Tis not time for her any more than it is for Evie.
So now..Abby is the new addition to the family I guess. Not Abel. ABBY.