a. Candidates campaign, issues are discussed, people vote, votes are counted and a winner announced. This isn't about me calling it an election, it is an election.
b. If Jeb Bush was winning the votes fair and square, I wouldn't be happy, but I would respect the process. In that, I am a better person than the Republican Leadership.
c. A party is an organization who's purpose is to win elections. In attacking their own front runner, the leadership is betraying that purpose and their fellow members. And yes, part of being a team is supporting the TEAM. Even if you don't get to be Team Captain. Which I have done so in the past, and it is now their turn.
Yeah, but it's NOT an election. It's not an official government function, and has been pointed out, the party itself decides how binding the opinions expressed actually are. It's a poll. In fact, some states even come right out and call it that.
The Republican leadership IS respecting the process. It's the people who just noticed the process and are demanding that it be changed mid-stream to suit them that aren't.
A party has more purposes than just winning elections, which is why sometimes, they're willing to accept losing. Their primary purpose, rightly or wrongly, is to advance their own power and goals. This is not different from any other political party. Only the goals change.
All this twaddle about being obligated to accept a frontrunner who is no more or less than a hostile takeover of the party with an avowed goal - at least among its supporters - of smashing the party is nothing but the same old "you must give up and let me have my way, how DARE you oppose me and fight for your own aims!" The party leaders didn't give up the same right that the Trumpettes have to fight for THEIR candidate choice, simply because they became party leaders. Indeed, more effective fighting for their own candidates and goals is the reason WHY they worked so hard for that position.
Donald Trump isn't part of the "team". Much of the entire point of his candidacy is that he isn't, and hostility and negative intent toward the party.