I realize we were previously having a conversation about social welfare programs from the government and maybe that is what you meant to address... or at least, I am going to make that assumption.
Yep....that's the right assumption. I associated my sentence with the wrong post. Sorry. Should have been in connection with post #93.
it simply encourages laziness and lack of motivation.
Thanks... so now, you can address my comments in #96.
Let me add something, if I may?
Suppose in your mentoring, you realized your mentee was needing something you could afford to provide... like, say, a pair of dress shoes. Which action would you prefer to take...
A.) Give him $100 to go buy some nice dress shoes... or
B.) Take him to a place you know of that has nice dress shoes, have him fitted and then pay for the shoes?
I would chose B. Not because I'm a racist or I don't trust the mentee... but because my role as a mentor would be to teach him things and show him how they are done properly. Rather then test my faith in his honesty and judgement, I would take a more proactive role if I was investing my $100.
What I am interested in hearing is an argument for A.