Emily, we are a Republic with democratic procedures. Your desire for bifurcated political and public social services is not workable in our environment.
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JakeStarkey
1. Again, Jake,
BELIEFS are not up to democratic vote to decide.
That is the mistake that both sides are making here, either banning gay marriage, then trying to force laws defending traditional marriage, now trying to use the govt to implement gay marriage which also violates separation of religion or private beliefs from govt.
This abuse of govt to impose beliefs is what isn't working, Jake. The LACK of separation.
Trying to make public policy on marriage the SAME for all people when clearly they don't agree.
How is that any different than trying to declare ONE RELIGION for people,
when they want to practice separate policies in private,
by dictating terms of marriage for all people,
when they don't agree and want different things? Wouldn't common sense tell you
to take that OUT of govt and leave it to the people to decide and practice privately like religion?
Both sides are trying to sue and litigate and legislate to protect their own beliefs,
which should NOT BE IN GOVT to begin with! That's why we keep beliefs OUT.
TO AVOID this very no-win conflict, where either way, if the court takes one side over the other,
then govt is ESTABLISHING a belief about either traditional marriage over gay marriage or gay marriage over traditional marriage.
Those are both VIOLATIONS of the equal religious freedom of the other!
2. What would work is just like separating Hindus and Muslims or Catholics and Baptists.
Let each have their own private programs and systems
and NOT LEGISLATE ANY THROUGH GOVT.
And lastly Jake
3. I am personally open to anybody's beliefs about marriage. Fine with gay marriage.
But just because I AM okay with that, does not give me or the govt the right to sign away and force OTHER people to change their beliefs if they disagree!
I'm just being honest, given that traditional marriage is a BELIEF and cannot be forced to change by govt.
The way the Christian beliefs and practices are, there will have to be a separation of some sort.
The Christians and especially those in Texas are already talking about civil disobedience
and not obeying if the Supreme Court legalizes gay marriage.
So I am just stating what I see going on with religion, and how it is people's nature to defend that
and not change it by govt force.
Jake is that clear -- I am NOT SAYING WE SHOULD CREATE this -- I am saying the problem already exists.
I'm not saying I want this to happen, I am saying that is what is happening, and why! Because both beliefs are EQUAL.
So I am trying to explain, prepare and work with people through this to resolve it.
That's the reality, Jake, both sides have equal rights to their beliefs, and govt cannot take one side over the other
without violating religious freedom of the other side and equal protection of the laws for all people regardless of creed.