One more time- A god who tortures people for all eternity for not believing in him isn't worthy of anyone's worship.
If people are "spiritual beings", it may be extremely hard to "end them" (their spirit). Some believe that "hell" is actually a mercy. Once in the presence of the Lord, the desire to remain there will be so strong, that only a distraction (pain) will ease the longing.
There is evidence of this: in the Book of Enoch when Enoch tells the fallen angels there punishment for sinning against the Lord, part of that punishment is banishment from the presence of the Lord (confined to earth). When they heard this part of the punishment, the fallen angels thru themselves on the ground, tore their clothing, gnashed their teeth, pulled out their hair and clawed their chests.
They were in the presence of the Lord. They knew what that was like, yet they were extremely distressed when they heard that particular part of the punishment.
We are witnesses to some spiritual occurences here where people seem to just shine with spiritual love. We want that. Many of us try to work towards that by practicing our faiths and the continual search for the truth. Yet the source of that "love" is not fully in our world. When the people that recognize the Lord are in His presence on Judgement Day, they will be filled with ecstacy. Those that deny Him will feel a super "high", but deny the source. They will denounce Him, and yet at the same time, not want to leave His presence. When they are sent away, it will be absolute hell (pain), not to be in His presence.