Singles bar

[BDBoop]

But the other half...really misses having someone there. I have friends but I miss having that person to talk to thru the day or come home to.

I looked for that too, until realizing most men really don't want to talk with their wives very often. I found friendships with women to be the most gratifying for the purpose of conversation and interests-in-common.

Oh, word yes. My BFF and I go on road trips, and the only time we shut up is at dinner. *not supposed to talk with your mouth full anyway, amirite??* So we whip out our tablets and play online until we are back on the road.

 

[Diana1180]

I really like being single. A lot. I like going where I want and doing what I want.

Amen

See...I dont know if I understand this argument.

In a relationship you should be able to do what you want when you want anyway. Just in a relasionhip you choose the better option for you at the moment. Whether thats going out with your friends....or your partner.

I think its just called growing up/ maturity. Do you choose to go out every night drinking...or go out one night with your buddies and choose a night with your girlfriend.

Chances are if you choose to go out every night drinking....the choice to be single really isnt up to you.

Not sure if I made sense there. lol SOunded better in my head.

 

[High_Gravity]

But that's good, Diana. Because for you, either will do. It's kinda like being bisexual about committed relationships.

The ones who worry me are the young women who honestly think that they cannot or will not be happy until they find their "other half."

lol..good way to put it.

My daughter is 15 and getting into that boy crazy stage.

I am trying to teach her that being single/ not having a bf is NOT a bad thing lol.

Too many people put too much emphasis on being with someone, my ex gf is an example of this. After we broke up after 5 years she started dating her personal trainer for 6 months, after they broke up she literally married her sisters ex boyfriend after talking on line with him. She just cannot be single.

 

[High_Gravity]

I really like being single. A lot. I like going where I want and doing what I want.

Amen

See...I dont know if I understand this argument.

In a relationship you should be able to do what you want when you want anyway. Just in a relasionhip you choose the better option for you at the moment. Whether thats going out with your friends....or your partner.

I think its just called growing up/ maturity. Do you choose to go out every night drinking...or go out one night with your buddies and choose a night with your girlfriend.

Chances are if you choose to go out every night drinking....the choice to be single really isnt up to you.

Not sure if I made sense there. lol SOunded better in my head.

Well if you have a girlfriend or a wife you can't really do what you want, if my friends want to go out to a strip club for example my wife might not want me going, or she won't say anything and we'll fight afterwards. If you are single you can just go with no reprucussions.

 

[earlycuyler]

Amen

See...I dont know if I understand this argument.

In a relationship you should be able to do what you want when you want anyway. Just in a relasionhip you choose the better option for you at the moment. Whether thats going out with your friends....or your partner.

I think its just called growing up/ maturity. Do you choose to go out every night drinking...or go out one night with your buddies and choose a night with your girlfriend.

Chances are if you choose to go out every night drinking....the choice to be single really isnt up to you.

Not sure if I made sense there. lol SOunded better in my head.

Well if you have a girlfriend or a wife you can't really do what you want, if my friends want to go out to a strip club for example my wife might not want me going, or she won't say anything and we'll fight afterwards. If you are single you can just go with no reprucussions.

Thing is, you dont have to compromise. If you want to be married you may stop going to strip clubs for example. If one doesnt want to stop, one might consider not getting married.

 

[High_Gravity]

See...I dont know if I understand this argument.

In a relationship you should be able to do what you want when you want anyway. Just in a relasionhip you choose the better option for you at the moment. Whether thats going out with your friends....or your partner.

I think its just called growing up/ maturity. Do you choose to go out every night drinking...or go out one night with your buddies and choose a night with your girlfriend.

Chances are if you choose to go out every night drinking....the choice to be single really isnt up to you.

Not sure if I made sense there. lol SOunded better in my head.

Well if you have a girlfriend or a wife you can't really do what you want, if my friends want to go out to a strip club for example my wife might not want me going, or she won't say anything and we'll fight afterwards. If you are single you can just go with no reprucussions.

Thing is, you dont have to compromise. If you want to be married you may stop going to strip clubs for example. If one doesnt want to stop, one might consider not getting married.

There is an alternative, my ex wife actually went to the strip club with me lol she was alot of fun when things were good, she got motor boated by all the dancers and got several free lap dances, good times.

 

[Diana1180]

Amen

See...I dont know if I understand this argument.

In a relationship you should be able to do what you want when you want anyway. Just in a relasionhip you choose the better option for you at the moment. Whether thats going out with your friends....or your partner.

I think its just called growing up/ maturity. Do you choose to go out every night drinking...or go out one night with your buddies and choose a night with your girlfriend.

Chances are if you choose to go out every night drinking....the choice to be single really isnt up to you.

Not sure if I made sense there. lol SOunded better in my head.

Well if you have a girlfriend or a wife you can't really do what you want, if my friends want to go out to a strip club for example my wife might not want me going, or she won't say anything and we'll fight afterwards. If you are single you can just go with no reprucussions.

Yes..but if you like to go to strip clubs...dont date/marry a girl who hates you going to strip clubs lol. You set yourself up right there.

I really could care less if my man (hypothetical) goes to a strip club with the guys. If he is going to cheat on me...he will do it. I trust until given reason not to. If he chooses to go to a strip club every night...then its obvious he doesnt want to spend time with me and we need to rethink things. There will be nights i want to go out with the girls too.

I dont want you up my ass 24/7...and i doubt you want me up yours either.

Its about priorities i guess.

 

[earlycuyler]

Well if you have a girlfriend or a wife you can't really do what you want, if my friends want to go out to a strip club for example my wife might not want me going, or she won't say anything and we'll fight afterwards. If you are single you can just go with no reprucussions.

Thing is, you dont have to compromise. If you want to be married you may stop going to strip clubs for example. If one doesnt want to stop, one might consider not getting married.

There is an alternative, my ex wife actually went to the strip club with me lol she was alot of fun when things were good, she got motor boated by all the dancers and got several free lap dances, good times.

See? Common interests. There is a give and take. Both have to be intrested in working on it. Im not. Many bere seem to not be either and its cool to see so many so open and frank about it. Makes me feel like less of an ashole.

 

[Ava]

But that's good, Diana. Because for you, either will do. It's kinda like being bisexual about committed relationships.

The ones who worry me are the young women who honestly think that they cannot or will not be happy until they find their "other half."

lol..good way to put it.

My daughter is 15 and getting into that boy crazy stage.

I am trying to teach her that being single/ not having a bf is NOT a bad thing lol.

Being 15 was the worst year of my life. My poor parents...

 

[pacer]

See...I dont know if I understand this argument.

In a relationship you should be able to do what you want when you want anyway. Just in a relasionhip you choose the better option for you at the moment. Whether thats going out with your friends....or your partner.

I think its just called growing up/ maturity. Do you choose to go out every night drinking...or go out one night with your buddies and choose a night with your girlfriend.

Chances are if you choose to go out every night drinking....the choice to be single really isnt up to you.

Not sure if I made sense there. lol SOunded better in my head.

Well if you have a girlfriend or a wife you can't really do what you want, if my friends want to go out to a strip club for example my wife might not want me going, or she won't say anything and we'll fight afterwards. If you are single you can just go with no reprucussions.

Yes..but if you like to go to strip clubs...dont date/marry a girl who hates you going to strip clubs lol. You set yourself up right there.

I really could care less if my man (hypothetical) goes to a strip club with the guys. If he is going to cheat on me...he will do it. I trust until given reason not to. If he chooses to go to a strip club every night...then its obvious he doesnt want to spend time with me and we need to rethink things. There will be nights i want to go out with the girls too.

I dont want you up my ass 24/7...and i doubt you want me up yours either.

Its about priorities i guess.

Well said, Diana. A healthy relationship is interdependent, not co-dependent. It is important to maintain ones independence while striking a balance with respect to time spent together.

 

[Diana1180]

Well if you have a girlfriend or a wife you can't really do what you want, if my friends want to go out to a strip club for example my wife might not want me going, or she won't say anything and we'll fight afterwards. If you are single you can just go with no reprucussions.

Yes..but if you like to go to strip clubs...dont date/marry a girl who hates you going to strip clubs lol. You set yourself up right there.

I really could care less if my man (hypothetical) goes to a strip club with the guys. If he is going to cheat on me...he will do it. I trust until given reason not to. If he chooses to go to a strip club every night...then its obvious he doesnt want to spend time with me and we need to rethink things. There will be nights i want to go out with the girls too.

I dont want you up my ass 24/7...and i doubt you want me up yours either.

Its about priorities i guess.

Well said, Diana. A healthy relationship is interdependent, not co-dependent. It is important to maintain ones independence while striking a balance with respect to time spent together.

You said it better and with less words lol.

 

[High_Gravity]

See...I dont know if I understand this argument.

In a relationship you should be able to do what you want when you want anyway. Just in a relasionhip you choose the better option for you at the moment. Whether thats going out with your friends....or your partner.

I think its just called growing up/ maturity. Do you choose to go out every night drinking...or go out one night with your buddies and choose a night with your girlfriend.

Chances are if you choose to go out every night drinking....the choice to be single really isnt up to you.

Not sure if I made sense there. lol SOunded better in my head.

Well if you have a girlfriend or a wife you can't really do what you want, if my friends want to go out to a strip club for example my wife might not want me going, or she won't say anything and we'll fight afterwards. If you are single you can just go with no reprucussions.

Yes..but if you like to go to strip clubs...dont date/marry a girl who hates you going to strip clubs lol. You set yourself up right there.

I really could care less if my man (hypothetical) goes to a strip club with the guys. If he is going to cheat on me...he will do it. I trust until given reason not to. If he chooses to go to a strip club every night...then its obvious he doesnt want to spend time with me and we need to rethink things. There will be nights i want to go out with the girls too.

I dont want you up my ass 24/7...and i doubt you want me up yours either.

Its about priorities i guess.

lol I used strip clubs as an example they can be fun but I haven't been to one in a few years, I prefer to go somewhere where you actually stand a chance with the girls lol, those dancers just want your money.

 

[Diana1180]

lol I used strip clubs as an example they can be fun but I haven't been to one in a few years, I prefer to go somewhere where you actually stand a chance with the girls lol, those dancers just want your money.

Oh I know..but what I said can go with any scenario also. Strip clubs, bars, friends house to play games, casino..etc etc. Its all the same.

Dont hit on the bartenders either...we might show you our cleavage but we just have to make rent lol.

Funny how all of us single people in the Singles Bar seems so normal lol.

 

[BDBoop]

lol I used strip clubs as an example they can be fun but I haven't been to one in a few years, I prefer to go somewhere where you actually stand a chance with the girls lol, those dancers just want your money.

Oh I know..but what I said can go with any scenario also. Strip clubs, bars, friends house to play games, casino..etc etc. Its all the same.

Dont hit on the bartenders either...we might show you our cleavage but we just have to make rent lol.

Funny how all of us single people in the Singles Bar seems so normal lol.

It's been fun chatting this morning, seeing different perspectives.

 

[High_Gravity]

lol I used strip clubs as an example they can be fun but I haven't been to one in a few years, I prefer to go somewhere where you actually stand a chance with the girls lol, those dancers just want your money.

Oh I know..but what I said can go with any scenario also. Strip clubs, bars, friends house to play games, casino..etc etc. Its all the same.

Dont hit on the bartenders either...we might show you our cleavage but we just have to make rent lol.

Funny how all of us single people in the Singles Bar seems so normal lol.

My ex gf was a bartender, she showed me her cleavage and we ended up living together for 5 years. If you hit on a bartender and she buys you free drinks with her own tip money, she likes you.

 

[High_Gravity]

lol I used strip clubs as an example they can be fun but I haven't been to one in a few years, I prefer to go somewhere where you actually stand a chance with the girls lol, those dancers just want your money.

Oh I know..but what I said can go with any scenario also. Strip clubs, bars, friends house to play games, casino..etc etc. Its all the same.

Dont hit on the bartenders either...we might show you our cleavage but we just have to make rent lol.

Funny how all of us single people in the Singles Bar seems so normal lol.

It's been fun chatting this morning, seeing different perspectives.

I agree, team single rules.

 

[Diana1180]

I agree, team single rules.

Yes, you guys keep me company when I dont want to work.

Like right now.

 

[High_Gravity]

I agree, team single rules.

Yes, you guys keep me company when I dont want to work.

Like right now.

Lol, I'm in the same boat, browsing and working. I know the week just started but I got to figure out where to happy hour wednesday and what to do this weekend, my FWB is out of town this weekend so I need to come up with something to do.

 

[Diana1180]

I agree, team single rules.

Yes, you guys keep me company when I dont want to work.

Like right now.

Lol, I'm in the same boat, browsing and working. I know the week just started but I got to figure out where to happy hour wednesday and what to do this weekend, my FWB is out of town this weekend so I need to come up with something to do.

I work all weekend so I have no plans to make lol.



*Edited to take out the comment that made me look like a floozy.

 

[High_Gravity]

Yes, you guys keep me company when I dont want to work.

Like right now.

Lol, I'm in the same boat, browsing and working. I know the week just started but I got to figure out where to happy hour wednesday and what to do this weekend, my FWB is out of town this weekend so I need to come up with something to do.

I work all weekend so I have no plans to make lol.



*Edited to take out the comment that made me look like a floozy.

I will be working Overtime Saturday, but I will go out as well. All work and no play makes Gravity a dull boy.