Singles bar

[earlycuyler]

Not having smoked in over 30 years I decided I should find out what they cost these days.

What Does A Pack Of Cigarettes Cost In Each State Now? - The Awl

Range from $4.84 to $12.50 per pack!

Assuming that someone is smoking a pack/day that comes out to $1766 to $4562 per year.

In real terms I have probably saved myself $100,000 over that period.

So, he really doesn't come cheap then???
Dammit....(grumble$%#&!)

That depends!

When I still smoked (I quit a year ago) I bought little cigars online for about a dollar a pack.

I thought they went after online tobacco guys.

 

[Derideo_Te]

Damn youre a cheap date....
What you willing to do for a carton?

Not having smoked in over 30 years I decided I should find out what they cost these days.

What Does A Pack Of Cigarettes Cost In Each State Now? - The Awl

Range from $4.84 to $12.50 per pack!

Assuming that someone is smoking a pack/day that comes out to $1766 to $4562 per year.

In real terms I have probably saved myself $100,000 over that period.

So, he really doesn't come cheap then???
Dammit....(grumble$%#&!)

You could always charm EC into giving them up for you! After all I am sure you two could find something better to do together. And with the money EC saves he could buy you nice things. Sounds like a win-win to me.

 

[Jackson]

I have a female friend whos mostly been single her whole life, she was married for a year when she was in the Military but thats about it, no kids or anything. I like her and shes an awesome person but she looks, acts and behaves as if she is 20 years old and shes 36, she dates men in their 20s too and gets really upset because they won't commit, just want sex, cheat on her and play games. That is what alot of people in their 20's do men or women, I dated a 20 year old for a while too last year. Is it possible if a person is single for such a long time they get stuck in time and just behave as if their 21 forever?

Avoid her like the plague.

She's a complete idiot.

People like her would not know a good man from a hole in the ground. They make you pay if you think that they care at all.

Think about it. Is she immature?

 

[earlycuyler]

Sluts only get stuff. That's why were sluts. Stuff and sex. Slut stuff, lol.

 

[Montrovant]

So, he really doesn't come cheap then???
Dammit....(grumble$%#&!)

That depends!

When I still smoked (I quit a year ago) I bought little cigars online for about a dollar a pack.

I thought they went after online tobacco guys.

Cigars were still in a different category than cigarettes, I think....although the government may have already changed that, there was talk of it when I was smoking.

 

[Mad_Cabbie]

I have a female friend whos mostly been single her whole life, she was married for a year when she was in the Military but thats about it, no kids or anything. I like her and shes an awesome person but she looks, acts and behaves as if she is 20 years old and shes 36, she dates men in their 20s too and gets really upset because they won't commit, just want sex, cheat on her and play games. That is what alot of people in their 20's do men or women, I dated a 20 year old for a while too last year. Is it possible if a person is single for such a long time they get stuck in time and just behave as if their 21 forever?

Avoid her like the plague.

She's a complete idiot.

People like her would not know a good man from a hole in the ground. They make you pay if you think that they care at all.

Think about it. Is she immature?

Not sure what you mean, but she should never get serious consideration to marry until she gets her head screwed on straight.

Dating a 20 yr old when you are 36 is a VERY bad sign - it speaks volumes about you as a person.

What she is doing is beyond immature - it bi-passes immature and tests the outer boundaries of abject stupidity.

 

[Papawx3]

It's been said that most adults achieve "their adulthood" by the time they reach 25. That is, by that age they have already become what they are going to be.

Let her go. She's not worth your time. Move on.

 

[Diana1180]

I take a short hiatus and the Singles Bar closes??

 

[High_Gravity]

I take a short hiatus and the Singles Bar closes??

Did everyone get married or hook up? I'm still single btw, and had a total disaster of an experience with a 20 something year old from Alexandria smgdh

 

[AyeCantSeeYou]

Still single here. I'd say it's because I'm not looking, have noone in mind, and put my kids first.

 

[Diana1180]

I take a short hiatus and the Singles Bar closes??

Did everyone get married or hook up? I'm still single btw, and had a total disaster of an experience with a 20 something year old from Alexandria smgdh

What did we say about those 20-somethings? lol

 

[Diana1180]

Still single here. I'd say it's because I'm not looking, have noone in mind, and put my kids first.

I havent been actively looking either. I work and take care of my child. If a great guy bumps into me, ok. But it hasnt happened yet lol.

 

[High_Gravity]

I take a short hiatus and the Singles Bar closes??

Did everyone get married or hook up? I'm still single btw, and had a total disaster of an experience with a 20 something year old from Alexandria smgdh

What did we say about those 20-somethings? lol

I know I'm an idiot, I saw how she looked and still went for it smgdh, the thing is almost all the women my age all have kids and are looking for a father for them, my ex gf had kids and I was with her for 5 years, I cannot do that again. It may sound shallow but I want a woman by herself right now.

 

[Diana1180]

Did everyone get married or hook up? I'm still single btw, and had a total disaster of an experience with a 20 something year old from Alexandria smgdh

What did we say about those 20-somethings? lol

I know I'm an idiot, I saw how she looked and still went for it smgdh, the thing is almost all the women my age all have kids and are looking for a father for them, my ex gf had kids and I was with her for 5 years, I cannot do that again. It may sound shallow but I want a woman by herself right now.

Doesnt sound shallow, its what works for you at this point in time. They are out there, just might be harder to find. Keep going with the 20-somethings and unless she is mature, you will keep being disappointed.

 

[High_Gravity]

I'm not saying I would not date a woman with kids at all but it has to be right, my ex bitched and moaned about her ex husband all the time, smh, I'm not trying to hear that all the time.

 

[High_Gravity]

What did we say about those 20-somethings? lol

I know I'm an idiot, I saw how she looked and still went for it smgdh, the thing is almost all the women my age all have kids and are looking for a father for them, my ex gf had kids and I was with her for 5 years, I cannot do that again. It may sound shallow but I want a woman by herself right now.

Doesnt sound shallow, its what works for you at this point in time. They are out there, just might be harder to find. Keep going with the 20-somethings and unless she is mature, you will keep being disappointed.

Everything sounded too good to be true, we were talking on the phone every day for 2 weeks and we were supposed to meet this past weekend, well Friday comes around and I don't hear from her at all. I have enough experience to know this a red flag, when you talk to a woman everyday and all of a sudden that changes with no explanation she has either met somebody else or having second thoughts. Than on Sunday she texts me and says the long distance thing is not going to work, I'm like well ok but you should have just told me that to begin with smgdh.

 

[Esmeralda]

Did everyone get married or hook up? I'm still single btw, and had a total disaster of an experience with a 20 something year old from Alexandria smgdh

What did we say about those 20-somethings? lol

I know I'm an idiot, I saw how she looked and still went for it smgdh, the thing is almost all the women my age all have kids and are looking for a father for them, my ex gf had kids and I was with her for 5 years, I cannot do that again. It may sound shallow but I want a woman by herself right now.

I think if you don't have any children, then wanting a girlfriend who doesn't have children is completely reasonable. You will find more women who don't have children who are college grads--that is what statistics show.

If you have children and want a girlfriend who doesn't have children, I'd see that as hypocritical. Just saying.

 

[High_Gravity]

Avoid her like the plague.

She's a complete idiot.

People like her would not know a good man from a hole in the ground. They make you pay if you think that they care at all.

Think about it. Is she immature?

Not sure what you mean, but she should never get serious consideration to marry until she gets her head screwed on straight.

Dating a 20 yr old when you are 36 is a VERY bad sign - it speaks volumes about you as a person.

What she is doing is beyond immature - it bi-passes immature and tests the outer boundaries of abject stupidity.

You pretty much nailed it, she is single again now the guy she was seeing has moved on, he was cheating on her anyways. She can't understand why she can't find a decent guy but the truth is the decent guys are around her, shes either ignoring them or putting them in the friend zone, I am over it she is going to be 37 this year, if she hasn't figured this out oh well.

 

[Esmeralda]

Still single here. I'd say it's because I'm not looking, have noone in mind, and put my kids first.

Don't wait too long. After a certain age, they stop throwing themselves at you everytime you turn around, and you actually have to make an effort. Truth,

 

[AyeCantSeeYou]

Still single here. I'd say it's because I'm not looking, have noone in mind, and put my kids first.

Don't wait too long. After a certain age, they stop throwing themselves at you everytime you turn around, and you actually have to make an effort. Truth,

In my case, I'm 45 and have a son that's autistic (he's 25) that I'll always have to take care of. I don't expect any man to want to deal with that. It'd be stupid of me to even think that there's someone out there that would want to be part of my life when I have a child that will always require supervision.